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When you get on the very touch subject of rape and molestation it’s like whoa, especially involving children. You just touched that topic that should be silenced and avoided, maybe that’s the problem right there. This is something that happens everyday to people everywhere, those we know/don’t know and maybe it could be happening to someone in your own home, or even you! It’s said that most children who are raped, molested, and sexually abused are often victims of a neighbor, family friend, or even worse a family member.
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I am not close to my parents. I can easily have a conversation with my dad but never really deep and meaningful kind of stuff. I can just talk to my mother about the weather without wanting to run away very very fast.

I started on the internet when I was 11. All the new stuff was cool and I found chat rooms and ‘friends’ and everything else the internet offers.

Now this is my problem. I have friend, the ones with flesh and stuff, but I can only really talk to my husband about life and what gets me down, what makes me happy and all the other stuff in between. My best friend is overseas and for me to complain to her all the time would just be annoying so I don’t open my soul so to speak until I see her and even then I usually have children around which means I can’t talk talk.
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Please No hurtful comments or any responses from the mod that lives in tampa fl I just dont see her advice helpful its nothing personal.

I’m on the verge of suicide at the moment we’ll actually its been a year and a half I’ve had it for my whole life but it amplified by over 200 times this last year and a half. I lost this girl that was my first girl friend we use to have amazing sex and and she practically lived at my house. She’d scratch my back and take care of me and I would do the same for her. We loved each other I enjoyed her company. I wasn’t perfect her family was unfair to me. At times I fucked up. I did miss her graduation because she before dating me was friends with mostly guys wanted her so I didnt want to see her with them. I use to do things for her family like going to dinners and even did things like paying for her it made me happy, I use to call her telling her to hurry up and get here. We had fun just laying in bed watching tv and talking and loved making love. I made her comfortable with herself she wanted sex everyday and would spend the night at my house. She lied about stuff a lot of stuff but little things so we would fight over that. I got hooked on oxycotin and she moved into town to play a sport. When she moved it was like she had no time for me and it hurt so bad. We faught and broke up but I figured it would resolve it self and we would be able to work it out. Well one day a few months later she acted like everything was going to be ok only to have her come sit on my couch and tell me that she was getting engaged to a younger guy who she just met and i think she did it cause she likes horses he has them and he put a ring on her finger. Well anyway I was in tears tried to get her back and then I decided to give up. I fucked up in school with grades, starting doing hardcore oxycotin, blew through my savings of 2500. I tried to tell her how much I love her even today I did because she texted me asking about my number and who this is but she knows my number by heart i had it ten years and she called me every day so i figured this not knowing my number game meant she wanted to start something. she called me for months after her engagement acting like getting together told me i was best at sex even having phone sex we met up a few times and like I said I hear from her every once in a while still. We I poured my heart out and said forget the past we belong together I want you back Im moving and want you with me well her ex sent me a text being civil at first and then being an asshole so i told him everything i did with her sexually and then he said hes happy with her and the baby im assuming her dog because i live in a small town and never heard she was pregnant. Her parents did the same thing met at 17 the mom cheated on the dad he burnt her stuff and then they got back together 3 years later. I don’t know if thats her plan with us, I’ve considered getting a restraining order to show her that wont happen with us. What do I do I’m doing so many pills. She was the love of my life, I stuck my neck out there just to have it broken and now im a drug addict who doesnt think about other women who has od before and wants to commit suicide. My mom and dad wont talk about stuff with me and tell me find a new one. I want her not anyone else and now im afraid shes pregnant and that she will never want me again. Suicide has been on my mind i havent thought about any other girls when we first broke up i fucked some but I dont know what to do. I love her I’d do anything for her and yet she doesnt seem to want that but then text me and calls me out of the blue. What do I do? I’ve been to therapy, I’ve asked my parents for they make me feel. Id marry her right now if I could even have a baby but it probably won’t happen I would go to her house but the bf lives with her. I might move up north with my aunt and uncle. Should I do the restraining order thing tomorrow to show her it wont be like her parents i wont wait but then she cant contact me. Please dont tell me to get over it ok because I’m at the point of slitting my wrist very soon. I wont go to the looney bin. Please help if you can. shes been the only girl to give me a second look.
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She listens, even if I have to write my thoughts and stuff down on paper so I won’t have to say them so they won’t be real she reads them and then we have a q and a style session afterwords. If we go 30 minutes over a 15 minute appointment she doesn’t charge extra. So today after this being our 5th or 6th appointment she finally gave me her diagnoses. Bipolar 1 (not new), PTSD, Panic Disorder, Agoraphobia, and OCD (all new). I finally feel like I have a doctor that is listening and cares, and that is actually there to help me get better
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Does anyone here have experience with passive-aggressive behavior in their SO and perhaps the successful treatment for the disorder? I’ve been reading up on it and the description of the behavior fits my ex. What I can’t seem to find is any treatment options.
Treatment for passive agressiveness?

I don’t really think of that as a disorder. More like a personality trait.

Perhaps the treatment you are looking for can be found in yourself.
Wikipedia says it is a personality trait in the first line of the article. The artle goes on and then calls it a disorder.
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my g/f and i want to go to canada for a week and she hasn’t decided which city she would like to visit, but she wants a city that is going to have the best food / restaurants (she has a food blog), doubt we’ll be partying much, so the night scene shouldn’t be taken into consideration.

if anyone has suggestions please help.
i can’t seem to find a place to do it, i honestly didn’t know this was a therapy forum.

So I’ve never kissed a girl or had sex (obv lol) at the age of 21. I’m not a social recluse or anything. I live with two fraternity brothers at school, am friends with the two biggest party frats on campus so I get into all their parties. After freshman year it’s really hard for guys to get in so this is pretty rare. I have female friends, I can talk to them easily, even new girls I meet, I can make them laugh. I try to be confident but somehow it’s just "never happened." I’ve never really tried either because there just never seems to be an opportunity. I guess I could start by getting a date but when I try that I always get shot down, sometimes very roughly too.
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I think i am suffering from all them, but mostly from Dissociation

I’ve been doing a lot of research and trying to read up on all of them but i figure somebody on here must know something about it..

Maybe some advice as to what psychiatrist to go to, or what kind of therapy/treatment would be best?

I’m not currently in the USA and will visit a psychiatrist as soon as i get back, but i DO wanna be prepared and well informed on this crap well ahead of time.
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We had been dating for about a year, but had slept together for the first time about five months ago. He had never been with anyone else before, and I was his first girlfriend. Not that it matters, but he’s 20 and I’m 23. He was a really mature person, and I questioned it at times, he was even some what robotic.

Previous to this relationship, I had been with someone else for about five years and was single for over a year after that. I’m over my past relationship, it was very messy and probably due for a break up around year three. When I had met my boyfriend, or now ex, I told him everything that had taken place in my past relationship – the messy details, the crap that I went through, and even the mistakes I made, essentially I was completely honest with him all the time and answered any and all questions he had about my past. I had never met a guy like him before, he was nice, funny, he treated me with genuine respect, and always said what was on his mind. He was always prepared to talk about anything that was bothering me, and was willing to do it until the problem was resolved. Overall our relationship was simple and free of fighting and mostly consisted of us laughing, discussing our future and sex.
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Have you or anyone you know ever found out they had repressed memories? How’d they find out?

I’ve been thinking about something off and on my whole adult life and I just want some opinions on it. I really don’t think it has affected me, so I’ve never looked for help. It’s just kinda puzzling to me.

Remember when you were a kid and you still needed help drying off and getting out of your wet suit? How old would you say you were then? 7? 8? I’m guessing because I can’t remember how old I was.
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