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My wife and I purchased a home in the Summer of 2008. We filed our taxes and received the first time home buyers tax credit, which was $7,500 I think. In May 2009 we left that home because we could not afford it anymore. I believe the house went into foreclosure. I am still not sure as to what happened.

In June 2010, My wife left me and we are now separated and going through the divorce process.

I am wondering what happens with the tax credit because I think it is due back. I have no idea what happened with the house and I have no idea what my wife is doing because we are not communicating in reference to that anymore. I believe she could be filing for bankruptcy but I don’t know.
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Once again, my perscription goes unapproved for the weekend. I find it hard to believe that 2 different pharamacies have such junk hardware that they fail to send refill requests.

This happens about every 2 months or so. Stranding me across a weekend to deal with serious sciatica. I have no insurance due to my wife getting laid off and we’re forced to pay out of pocket. Damn office is only open the first Saturday of the month.

I’m currently taking Gabapentin and Tramadol to somewhat control the pain. I always allow myself a buffer but this is insane. I shouldn’t have to suffer because they’re either morons, or they have something against me.
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I’ve got a lot of weird shit on my mind.

I really need to let off steam but friends & confidants can only take so much. I’ve got a lot more steam than what can be reasonably tolerated by those I keep in touch with.

Most of the reason is that I’m constantly & meticulously maintaining my sanity. Sometimes I just want to let go & let whatever stupid thing that’s got me all worked up drive me over the edge. Let my mind crack. I get paranoid & anxious, stop sleeping, barely eat, stop making coherent thoughts & start thinking suicidally when I really get bad. It hasn’t been that bad in years though.
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My dad was gone from my life for a good part of the first 15 years of my life. He wasn’t always a father figure to me, but when he was, he did a good job. Even though he wasn’t always there for me when I was a child, I’ve reconnected with him during my teenage, and then "young adult" years. He passed away last October. He was 49.
A few days ago I found out my uncle, who practically has helped to raise me, died in an accident last week. He was 52.
And now my grandfather, who’s 76, has suffered a stroke, with whom I had lived for more than half a decade, and who hes raised me when my parents were absent, is in hospital, and refusing to eat and drink.
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I feel dumb for allowing this to happen, but when I look back I can see a pattern of how my exgf was able to eliminate my friendships one by one.

1. There was a car enthusiasts club that I belonged to for 3-4 years. We’d have get togethers, bbq’s, cruises, etc. The last time I saw them was during a member’s bday party where my gf came along with me. She didn’t try to talk to anybody the entire time and looked very depressed. I ignored it because she was embarrassing me in front of my friends. She wanted to go on the trampoline down the hill, but since nobody else was using it and I didn’t want to, I didn’t want to be the one to ask the host and she refused to ask herself. Then she disappeared and I didn’t see her for about an hour. When we all went out front I saw her walking from up the road talking on the phone.
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Last time i came here, you all had great advise which helped me get over my insecurities and solve my problems. So here i am again, needing some more advise.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now (6+ months) and have had a relatively great relationship, less the last month. I have a very strong and overwhelming family, but have nothing but love to give to everybody. My girlfriend has serious self esteem problems and never defends herself. My family jokes around a lot and i guess to a weaker individual it could be looked at as shit talking (but its all in good fun) so anyways, my girlfriend who is so adamant on us having a serious relationship with a lasting future tells me that she is putting a limit that she will only see my family once a week because she is too sensitive to my family. Well, i get mad about her doing that as my family has always been a huge part of my life, and i would NEVER do that to her with her family as i respect her, them, and our relationship too much to be selfish like that. For the next month or so, i kept this grudge inside and basically just did not make her feel loved or special. She did not feel like i even wanted her around at all, mind you she has very low self esteem, i know i was VERY VERY wrong in how i went about this, and i regret doing so.
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I know I do it to myself, but for some reason I keep seeing the damn good in people and I continue to let them take advantage of me.

And then I dont stop it because then I feel bad, like I’m mean or things will be my fault if I do stop things.

A friend recently gave me advice telling me to not be so available to people, if I’m always there, to just not always be there, if I always do things, to stop doing things for people.

I just find it really hard to. So how do I stop without coming off as a mean bitch?
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yeah, so like the title says, I’m getting pretty tired of living. Not because my life is bad or anything; I have an awesome wife, and we’re more or less comfortable financially, but life is just boring as fuck and there’s not really anything that makes me happy.

I’ve realized that I have a lot of "things" that we have accumulated over the years that I’ve been buying to fill some sort of happiness void in my life. In the past 7 years we’ve had over 20 cars, a few motorcycles, moved to a different city, lived in 7 different houses or apartments and we recently bought a house. However, none of these things have made me "happy" for more than a week or two, then the newness wore off and everything was boring and uninteresting again.
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I have been friends with everyone here for a long time and they have done nothing wrong. It is just that we all just seem to argue over stupid things all the time. Don’t do things as a group anymore and really don’t seem to even like the same stuff anymore.

I suppose this is normal right? I feel like an ass for wanting to move on but it feels like I get along better with my new friends vs old.
Sometimes you just gotta move on with your life. If you’re unhappy with you’re current friends and get along better with the new ones so be it.
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My husband and I have been married 2 years next week and over the weekend he told me that he felt we moved too fast, getting married was a mistake and he "does not think we have anything in common and are better off as friends verse partners."

For the past few months I have been making comments on how we do not spend quality time together, our sex life dwindled to almost nothing, and he just did not seem interested – no hand holding, cuddling etc (in his defense he does not like PDA) however there was very few times we were touchy-feely at home.
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