Okay so I met this girl on Facebook a couple weeks ago. She messaged me so I knew she was interested. I responded back to all her messages with (IMHO) a great cocky & funny attitude. I think she was getting hooked.
So after about a week and a half of her messaging me everyday to every other day I felt that her interest level was high enough to meet up and hang out. So I told her I had to do some shopping at the mall and told her to meet me there this last Saturday, which she gladly did.
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I have posted a couple times in here before, but mostly lurked. I have several problems, and really need some help. I have a horrible anxiety problem - I am on 6mg of Klonopin a day, and still have major panic attacks. I’ve been in therapy on and off for 20+ years and none of them have helped. The only time in the last 15 or so years when I wasn’t stricken with panic was when I was in relationship. Well, my mom didn’t like her and thought she was using me for money. My mom also thought she was mentally and emotionally abusive to me. I don’t know what to think. I am just very resentful that my mom broke up our engagement. I really don’t think I have dealt with a lot of it.
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I got in a car accident Feb of this year and have had terrible knee pain since. My primary doctor sent me off for a MRI in March and it came back clean. I do have bone concavity and she was having me use a brace for support since the accident.
Since my knee still wasn’t improving, they set me up with a ortho in April. The guy was probably one of the rudest people I have ever met. The first time I met with him, he told me to continue PT (which I did) and to come back in a month saying I would either get steroid injections, or scheduled for surgery. At that time, he even advised that steroids wouldn’t be a good route because of my age and the nature of the injury. I went back to my primary doc and she agreed - Under no circumstances should I get steroid injections.
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So basically I was living life, enjoying it, reaching for my goals, when suddenly, a pitted scar appeared on my face. I had no inflamed acne whatsoever, so it kind of boggled me, but I thought whatever, maybe I was just aging. Then two more pits appeared, I went to a dermatologist. He said I had blackheads[non-inflamed acne that doesn't swell and cause redness and isn't too visible] all over my forehead and cheeks. I asked him….. blackheads can cause scarring?!?!?!? He said yes, gave me some meds [retin-a and antibiotics] and sent me on my way. The meds are helping remove some of the blackheads, but the scarring has become quite disfiguring. I always thought these type of scars only came from cystic acne, but I guess I was wrong. 2 months have passed since those first few pits popped up, and my face has become quite fucked up.
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I’m 19, a virgin, generally a popular guy, very friendly with both guys and girls, but I really don’t give a shit about sex. The only reason I want to have sex is just to basically say "there, I did it." Whenever I get around to losing my virginity, am I going to turn into a sex fiend, or will I keep this mentality?
When you never had sex it seems like a big deal, once you had it you’d care even less about it then you do now. Sometimes unwanted things can pop up in your life pushing you to the max to do it, even if you don’t want to or are perfectly satisfied with your life. my advice don’t push yourself.
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because while i openly admit i am severely apathetic about just about everything, i don’t consider myself depressed. i mean, i appreciate everything i have, i am loved by my parents, and i love them. i have friends who care for me, but i don’t really talk to anybody, and usually put up a "wall". very, very few people get past this wall.
i would consider myself the "strong, silent type", but i can be "normal" once i know someone for long enough, or, on rare occasions, like the person right from the start.
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god. f*ckin’ pretty ass latino boys!!!!!!! definitely my weakness.
i know i know… it’s all lust. lol
i just wanna get this out…
i already know the answers to my questions but if u guys can just please agree or give me ur thoughts it would be nice to hear what others have to say.
there’s this boy. he’s latino. OMG so pretty. charming. sexy. adorable. haha he’s just so cute and i love the way he makes me feel. i look at myself and wonder why the hell is he even talking to me?!?! look at him and look at me… LOL he’s so outta my league!! when he calls me sexy and pretty i feel like he’s just saying it. and i laugh cuz.. come on, he can do so much better (by that i mean HOTTER) than me. don’t get me wrong… i’m a pretty confident person.. but i know when others’ are hotter than me. i know where i stand. haha
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Is it true if you have financial security, it’ll be able get almost any woman you want? I know a few friends that are financially stable(they drive a 07 911 Porsche) and yet they can’t find a date to save their life.
I also know a few people(that drive a 88 Oldsmobile) that are not so financial stable, but yet they can get any woman they desire w/ a snap of a finger.
Is this possible?
Money can’t buy charm. Sometimes it can enhance a sense of confidence, but it’s nothing by itself.
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Here is the deal, I’m 23 and still a virgin. I’m shy when it comes to girls. I’m a low key person. I have a hard time meeting girls, the only time i try to pick up girls is in college and with my luck usually have boyfriends (read my previous post) I don’t like going out to clubs because the music is too loud, and I have a low voice so I usually have to repeat things I say and I don’t like the atmosphere. I’m not ugly, I always get looks from girls and even guys . My main problem is I just don’t know what to say, or I don’t know how to continue a conversion once i ask all the basic questions like where " Likes dislikes, where your from, how old are you, work.etc). If I do get to know someone well enough I Always become just a friend. In a previous post I made someone said don’t act needy. I try not to but I always do because I just want to meet someone and have a relationship or at least have a one night stand. I also have a problem of getting emotionally attached even though It hasn’t gotten that far yet. For instance I meet some girl and shows some interest in me and we get to know each other ,I imagine all these things in my mind just like thislol. I wish I can just play it cool and play it smooth like most my friends do. I have another friend who is like me and is frustrated like me but he has had 2 girlfriends in the past He just has a problem keeping a relationship going but thats another story. I keep thinking if I lose my virginity I will change and won’t feel as pressured all the time and have a easier time meeting girls. So My main question is Did Losing your virginity change you in a way that made you more relaxed around women and make it easier to talk to or does it make the way you were more so.
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Hi everyone. So here is the deal. Back in March over spring break I met this more amazing guy, or so I thought. I came back to college all excited about finally meeting this new guy and how happy I was to hangout w/him again. So I am sitting in the lounge telling my friends about him and showing a few friends his picture. They were all like hes wicked cute and seems pretty chill. So meanwhile I am talking to him online while I am telling my friends about him and we are planning a time to hang out. He asked me do you have a friend for my room mate, so I obviously think YES my single best friend. So I told him yes and he goes can we see a picture so I said sure. I show him a picture of her and he is like can I have her screeen name so I can give it to my room mate. So stupid me is like yes sure of corse! Little did I know he started talking to her and he wanted her. He asked her out on a date later that night after talking to her for 45 mins. Yet he continued to still talk to me and talk about our date and "us". So my friend tells me he asked me out and I said yes. So I’m pissed bc i want him but because I am a people pleaser and I cant say NO I said fine you can have him. So we hangout and we all have fun. To make a long story short, they have been dating for 3 months now and they are talking about marriage and a life together. I am also still really resentful,jealous and mad! I want him soo bad but I know he is a scumbag. He has also had a shaky past and is a pathological liar. Am i doing myself a favor by not being with this scum bag? Should I be supportive of my best friend? Should I tell my best friend the awful things he has done to people in the past and if so how do I do that without sounding like a jealous bitch who wants to break them up? What are everyone’s thoughts?? thanks everyone!
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