All capital letters in my thread title, I dunno. Anyway. In a relationship right now where my BF is ~2 or 2.5 hours away and we are both very serious about our grades and all that so visiting will be slim…maybe like…every other weekend to be realistic. So ya…lots of video chat/phone calls…but that’s not [...]

I was not excited about going to the wine country for a week alone, but suddenly I’ve found myself in a sittuation where a woman I work with asked me to go out with her to pick up on other singles…in tandem. I thought, hey, this will be great. Nothing better to meet women than [...]

Like I haven’t been living because I’ve never lived anywhere but Dallas. I worked in New Orleans for 9 months, Santa Fe 6 months, OKC for 9 months, and I’m about to be sent to Little Rock for 3 months. I just went on a great vacation in the San Francisco / Sonoma, and I [...]

I’ve been back 6-weeks now. I can’t stop thinking about how great my trip was. I went with 6 great friends, and everything fell into place perfectly for every day of the 6-day trip. Now I think about it every day, and can’t stop thinking about going back or moving there, which is not really [...]

I just read an interesting article that many don’t think about….when it’s time to leave therapy. There’s no lab test or imaging study like a CT scan or an MRI to measure how much progress you’ve made in therapy. But there is a strong movement away from endless navel-gazing — the Woody Allen stereotype of [...]