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I have a "harmless" tumor on my cheek ?

4 February, 2012
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I believe it’s called Lipoma. It doesnt look that bad. You can barely see it in certain lighting. But in other lighting, its very noticeable and bothers me to no end. My confidence and self esteem has dropped 100% since I noticed this thing. Nothing else has ever made me feel so insecure and self [...]

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Do you know anyone whose in-laws didn’t like them at first, but grew to love/apprecia

20 January, 2012
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I’m in a situation where I’m trying to get to know my Pakistani Muslim boyfriend’s parents. I’m white Canadian. The parents are nice, but are struggling with the notion that their son will be marrying a white girl and breaking away from tradition. While they haven’t forbidden him from being with me (he and I [...]

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Need some advice. Online Dating

18 January, 2012
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A couple of months ago I got out of a 3 year relationship (abusive) and am looking to meet new people. So i joined match.ca I paid the membership fee and i also created a profile on plentyoffish.com last week. My dilemma right now is i’ve lined up 4 dates in 5 days … should [...]

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work and personal situation…

16 January, 2012
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I seem to have fallen in love with a female co worker. We spend a lot of time together and share a lot of personal information with each other and tend to seek each other out. The problem is she is engaged ( for over 5 years now)to someone and has a child with them. [...]

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And this… this is why suicide is so wrong.

2 January, 2012
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I got this cousin. The woman is so fucking smart. She joined the Navy and went into the Naval academy. She graduated in the top 10% of her class. She has a picture of the VP (Joe Biden) handing her her diploma at graduation. Who do you know that has a picture like that? She [...]

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Need help with something I have been struggling with my whole life.

31 December, 2011
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I know everyone is just going to claim that I’m just looking for a simple cop out that I have ADD/ADHD but I’m 24 now and have a BA and I’ve been struggling with this my whole life. Basically I miss probably 50% of conversations I’m in everyday (seriously, everyday) because the words just seem [...]

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eating disorder / mental health

26 December, 2011
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Havent been back on here for a while, but would like some advice/shared experiences on dealing with a family member with eating disorders. Here is what I’ve posted on another forum im on Eating disorders / mental health Looking for a bit of advice from anyone who has dealt with friends/family dealing with eating disorders. [...]

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Can’t make a decision about my life

24 December, 2011
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Ok heres the deal, I’m 23 I just got my two year degree (it was a challenge for me I have a learning disability) I’m not retarted or anything but have some focusing/process issues. Anyway I just got the degree and need to make a decesssion that I can’t seem to make. I’m from jersey [...]

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Local officer and friend of the family dies at the age of 33

18 December, 2011
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I’m struggling here. Last Friday, September 9th, a local officer died of a blood clot suddenly at the age of 33. His service was two days ago and this really hit me hard. His family was very close with my family, I’m 28 and we only met a few times and just knew of each [...]

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Anyone on? i need anybody to talk with…

29 November, 2011
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Anyone on? I need to talk to anyone I am my own worst enemy, and most likely just fucked myself over badly. Ive been so sad for so long. I dont even know what to do. Its killing what small bit of pride i have left to even ask.. but im soo lost I dont [...]

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