I want to learn how to use women.

any thoughts on how i can start doing this?

yes i am serious.

any thoughts on how i can start doing this?

yes i am serious.

For what purpose?
uhhhhh


1. marry
2. make love
3. make food (she makes it for you)
4. eat it
5. ?????
6. profit

uhhhhh

1. marry
2. make love
3. make food (she makes it for you)
4. eat it
5. she cheats on you
6: you kill her
7: dump her body down a bridge embankment
8. profit

Corrected

to avoid being the one used

That’s what hookers are for.
read ross jeffries: how to get the women you desire in bed

and the assholes guide to handling chicks. once you have those both read

you will be set.

exactly, im too much of a gentleman, i guess ladies dont like that?

im over it now.

exactly, im too much of a gentleman, i guess ladies dont like that?

im over it now.

i know it’s the stupidest shit ever. "i like that he’s an asshole sometimes." shit pisses me off. why do you like that shit?

exactly, im too much of a gentleman, i guess ladies dont like that?

im over it now.

agreed
Always a good idea to let bitter feelings rule the kind of person you will be
If your problem is being to much of a gentleman, then stop being so much of a gentleman. Its as simple as you make it.

if you cant beat em join em. it comes down to the point where you get hurt so much, sanity and self preservation become paramount.

One day you’ll learn…

That’s a fucking cop-out and you know it. What’s really going on is that your feelings are hurt and your ego is deflated so you feel it’s easier and safer for you to retreat and become the jaded asshole than it is to admit your mistakes and learn form them.

Man up, get some confidence and figure out who you are before you go out trying to "use women" to make yourself feel better.

That’s a fucking cop-out and you know it. What’s really going on is that your feelings are hurt and your ego is deflated so you feel it’s easier and safer for you to retreat and become the jaded asshole than it is to admit your mistakes and learn form them.

Man up, get some confidence and figure out who you are before you go out trying to "use women" to make yourself feel better.

Wow, nicely put
lol, you’ll grow out of this mindset and find a healthy medium soon. in the meantime, happy hating
there’s nothing wrong with being a gentleman as long as you do it right and don’t be a bitch about it.
You need to read this post if you want to strike a balance with women:

well i wasn’t expecting it to be permanent, i just wanted to know how.

the "how" is easy. take the time to read, observe and experiment with women. find out what they respond to and then use it to your advantage. learn sales tactics and communication skills (verbal and non-verbal) in order to persuade people. lastly, change yourself into a highly desirable person.

people are willing to do a lot in order to get what they want, if you’re a person that people want, you’ll be able to pull the proper strings in order to get what you want. just remember to always maintain a "me first" mentality in everything you do.

any thoughts on how i can start doing this?

Don’t even start

Don’t lower yourself to a user’s level, what good will that accomplish? Just keep trying to find someone who is worth your time, money and love. Finding the right person is alot like going to a garage sale…alot of shit to sift through before finding the perfect treasure.

That’s a fucking cop-out and you know it. What’s really going on is that your feelings are hurt and your ego is deflated so you feel it’s easier and safer for you to retreat and become the jaded asshole than it is to admit your mistakes and learn form them.

Man up, get some confidence and figure out who you are before you go out trying to "use women" to make yourself feel better.

It’s not a cop-out. It’s a rite of passage. He needs to experience the dark side in order to find the right balance for himself.

Thank you

It’s not a cop-out. It’s a rite of passage. He needs to experience the dark side in order to find the right balance for himself.

My God, I hope you’re being facetious. If not, you’ve missed the entire point.

You sound like you’re light years away from being able to do something like that… it takes a certain charm to manipulate people. If you really want to understand how to do it, you have to go out and try things for yourself. You’ll fall a lot, but you’ll learn.

Nothing you read will teach you how to do that (or anything else involving human interaction).

Are you kidding? The john busts a nut, the hooker makes fifty bucks. I’m pretty sure it’s the john who’s getting used.

Because a guy who’s such an asshole that he takes it out on his girl sometimes will definitely always be an asshole towards people who have what she (and her babies) need, and towards people who want to take her for themselves. It’s the provider instinct.

Don’t even start

Don’t lower yourself to a user’s level, what good will that accomplish? Just keep trying to find someone who is worth your time, money and love. Finding the right person is alot like going to a garage sale…alot of shit to sift through before finding the perfect treasure.

It’s funny how girls always tell nice guys to stay nice guys, but they never reward the nice guys for being nice guys.

He’s a man. He needs to know how to get what he wants, politely or rudely. If nothing else, it keeps women honest — it’s not like they don’t do the exact same thing when they have the opportunity to, and the hormones give them an inherent advantage. If both man and woman know how to play each other, they’ll be compelled to keep their relationship aboveboard and healthy. That’s how life works.

It’s funny how girls always tell nice guys to stay nice guys, but they never reward the nice guys for being nice guys.

He’s a man. He needs to know how to get what he wants, politely or rudely. If nothing else, it keeps women honest — it’s not like they don’t do the exact same thing when they have the opportunity to, and the hormones give them an inherent advantage. If both man and woman know how to play each other, they’ll be compelled to keep their relationship aboveboard and healthy. That’s how life works.

Girls love nice guys because who else is going to be a doormat for them?

Thank you

My God, I hope you’re being facetious. If not, you’ve missed the entire point.

Being able to man up and get some confidence requires more than simply flipping a switch. It’s quicker to take the asshole route and then learn to tone it down.

Being able to man up and get some confidence requires more than simply flipping a switch.

Of course it does. That’s why you need to take the time to figure out who you are. Go out, get a hobby, go to the gym, develop your social skills, get yourself a life outside of an SO.

It’s quicker to take the asshole route and then learn to tone it down.

Again..you feel it’s easier and safer for you to retreat and become the jaded asshole than it is to admit your mistakes and learn from them…

So every woman he tries to date will have to suffer because he’s too lazy to take care of his own shit?

LAME.

Of course it does. That’s why you need to take the time to figure out who you are. Go out, get a hobby, go to the gym, develop your social skills, get yourself a life outside of an SO.

Again..you feel it’s easier and safer for you to retreat and become the jaded asshole than it is to admit your mistakes and learn from them…

So every woman he tries to date will have to suffer because he’s too lazy to take care of his own shit?

LAME.

Some guys have their shit together but still believe in being the traditional gentleman. To learn from their mistakes they need to find out what they did wrong. That can’t be done unless you experience social interaction from a completely different perspective.

That’s why you conveniently forget your wallet and or start using chloroform.

That’s a fucking cop-out and you know it. What’s really going on is that your feelings are hurt and your ego is deflated so you feel it’s easier and safer for you to retreat and become the jaded asshole than it is to admit your mistakes and learn form them.

Man up, get some confidence and figure out who you are before you go out trying to "use women" to make yourself feel better.

Very nicely put….

Too often people use others to build up their self-confidence. You really should develop your confidence in a more constructive way…work out, get hobbies, or seek therapy. Figure out who you are and learn to LOVE and RESPECT yourself before getting involved in any relationship. Then you can have this mind set "if the person I am with disrespects me in any way then THEY will lose the best damned thing that has ever happened to them".

My bf is a "nice guy" and, well, he has me so obviously nice guys don’t always finish last!

Very nicely put….

Too often people use others to build up their self-confidence. You really should develop your confidence in a more constructive way…work out, get hobbies, or seek therapy. Figure out who you are and learn to LOVE and RESPECT yourself before getting involved in any relationship. Then you can have this mind set "if the person I am with disrespects me in any way then THEY will lose the best damned thing that has ever happened to them".

My bf is a "nice guy" and, well, he has me so obviously nice guys don’t always finish last!

Yeah but he’s not a pussy.

Thanks for making me spit coffee out on my desk

Far from it…but nice guy none the less…

See that’s the difference though. The thread starter like most guys is probably perceived as a pussy by women.

You can’t be a pussy and a nice guy, you’re one or the others.

See that’s the difference though. The thread starter like most guys is probably perceived as a pussy by women.

You can’t be a pussy and a nice guy, you’re one or the others.

Agreed. People generally dont see the difference and assume they are interchangeable. Thus, when the ‘nice guy’ (pussy) gets destroyed by another woman, they feel their only other option is ‘asshole’ (which I feel theres another line here, between confident and asshole’).

Pussy -> Niceguy, Confident <–Asshole. You want to be between the arrows, and not playing the edges (a pussy- asshole…pusshole? That sounds wrong, but theres gotta be a word for it.).

You need to read this post if you want to strike a balance with women:

well put homey

.. doesn’t sound like many guys from 18-30 get that shit though .. its mostly just .. or puttin’ on a facade that really doesn’t hide much anyway ..

Agreed. People generally dont see the difference and assume they are interchangeable. Thus, when the ‘nice guy’ (pussy) gets destroyed by another woman, they feel their only other option is ‘asshole’ (which I feel theres another line here, between confident and asshole’).

Pussy -> Niceguy, Confident <–Asshole. You want to be between the arrows, and not playing the edges (a pussy- asshole…pusshole? That sounds wrong, but theres gotta be a word for it.).

Yeah it’s called Dickhead.

I was considering a new, super-phrase we can coin for it, but dickhead does hold a special place in my heart for people I loathe. Other drivers more and more lately, for instance….

any thoughts on how i can start doing this?

yes i am serious.

Oh god

Honestly.. hit up one of the 9 flights a day from LAX to Tokyo….. trust me on this, Japanese girls are like pinballs in a machine.

It won’t really work on American girls. I don’t even pretend to understand Japanese girls but they’ll bend over backwards to please their gaijin no boyfriendo.

treat’em ruff to get the muff.

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