STD Problem…

Guys I have a serious fucking problem…

I fucked a new girl last week, with a condom, but I think she gave me an STD.

All throughout my life I would get cold sores, so this isn’t something new. In fact usually everytime I get sick, I get a cold sore.

Last week I fingered this girl, and fucked her with a condom but now I have a cold sore on my anus. Gonna sound funny as shit, but it hurts. And I am FREAKING out. I can’t figure out how I got it. I also have one where I usually get them when sick on my lower lip. To my own hope/credit, I felt sick a day or two after hanging out with her. Hoping she passed a cold along that triggered this.

Can you get herpes from fingering? This is so fucked.
nope not possible, i read that the fingers and hands are not susceptible at all to getting herpes
I really cant give you any advice as I have no STD experience, nor am I a doctor, but everyone that replies is going to tell you to see a doctor asap

So then wtf… I used a condom… And pretty sure it wasn’t loose either… Just very odd that I get them in both spots, and trust me, nothing went near my ass.

I am hoping that this is just my body reacting to getting a cold, hence the term cold sores.

I don’t have health insurance anymore.
Also the anus thing.. I am not positive it is a cold sore. I had serious stomach problems Monday… I had wings two nights in a row, and I do not do well with hot foods. So I thought it was irritation from toilet paper. And when I look in the mirror I can’t tell either.

Really now that I think of it, I wasn’t having pain down there until Monday when I was in the bathroom all day rubbing.

Aha… Definitely put the shades down in the bathroom for that one.. I almost ate it head-first trying to look in the mirror

Not to sound smart, but I wouldn’t know what one looks like. It’s on the skin of the anus close to the hole itself. I thought I had irritated the shit out of it with toilet paper at first to the point where I peeled skin. Im sure you have all had this, minus breaking skin. Its still possible thats what happened, I have no way of seeing what it looks like. I tried with a digital camera but I can’t get close enough to see still.

You have a point of the hemorrhoids. I read up on them, I do have some systems on the external types. It would explain constipation after having hot wings two nights in a row… Would much rather have them, at least they are temporary.
you prolly either have been whacking it too much or have a UTI

Eh haven’t been whacking it too much.. A urinary tract infection = UTI? What does that have to do with my anus?
oops missed the anus part…. lol you prolly got herp but it might not be from her

Nah… This is the first girl I fucked since my ex-gf. My ex was an NCAA athlete and they have mandatory STD testing at our school. And we raw dogged it all the time so I knew she was clean..

This is a gross topic, but I am more think I irritated/broke skin when I was wiping my ass so much.. If this is true I will NEVER eat wings two nights in a row.

Nah… This is the first girl I fucked since my ex-gf. My ex was an NCAA athlete and they have mandatory STD testing at our school. And we raw dogged it all the time so I knew she was clean..

This is a gross topic, but I am more think I irritated/broke skin when I was wiping my ass so much.. If this is true I will NEVER eat wings two nights in a row.

haah

I bet you wont!

Not to sound smart, but I wouldn’t know what one looks like. It’s on the skin of the anus close to the hole itself. I thought I had irritated the shit out of it with toilet paper at first to the point where I peeled skin. Im sure you have all had this, minus breaking skin. Its still possible thats what happened, I have no way of seeing what it looks like. I tried with a digital camera but I can’t get close enough to see still.

You have a point of the hemorrhoids. I read up on them, I do have some systems on the external types. It would explain constipation after having hot wings two nights in a row… Would much rather have them, at least they are temporary.

Its hemroids.

if you have a cut or something, then yes, it’s possible.

It’s not easy, but it’s possible.

Ammo, if you think you got an STD, you really need to see a doc stat. Don’t walk, run.

however, it could very well be a hemorrhoid as those fuckers are sensitive and painful.

yep
do you generally spend a long time on the pooper? do your business and get off.
Physician time. They’ll check you over and then you’ll have an answer and likely peace of mind.

It’s the answer that I am afraid of. Lets say it does come back Herpes. Which at this point, I highly doubt it is. I would expect it on my cock, not my anus. Either way, if it did test positive, I would be an emotional/suicidal wreck. I wouldn’t know a normal life anymore.

Top that off, I don’t have health insurance.

Sorry but that was too funny.

Hopefully it’s just a ‘roid. Either way, go to a dr to find out. And be honest with what you’ve been up to so the dr can give you the proper treatment. I’m sure drs have seen/heard it all, and there’s much worse going on out there than a little fooling around.

It’s the answer that I am afraid of. Lets say it does come back Herpes. Which at this point, I highly doubt it is. I would expect it on my cock, not my anus. Either way, if it did test positive, I would be an emotional/suicidal wreck. I wouldn’t know a normal life anymore.

Top that off, I don’t have health insurance.

It’s not "that" serious man.

Having so shit grow on my cock/lip/anus is pretty serious in my book. How can I ever fuck a clean girl in the future.

Having so shit grow on my cock/lip/anus is pretty serious in my book. How can I ever fuck a clean girl in the future.

It’s in your best interest to talk to your doctor and to do some research on WebMD so that you don’t give yourself a stroke over an issue like this.

Having so shit grow on my cock/lip/anus is pretty serious in my book. How can I ever fuck a clean girl in the future.

be a porn star, they all have herps and fuck hotties.

don’t let them tempt you into gay porn tho…

unless you really need the money.

do you ever plan on getting health insurance? by that i don’t mean, wait for "change we can believe in" universal healthcare.
I have been searching for a job to get health insurance.

Lets say this is Herpes. Why would I get a cold sore in my anus? It wasn’t used at all or ever for sexual activities. I used a condom, wouldn’t/shouldn’t this be happening on my cock?

I have been searching for a job to get health insurance.

Lets say this is Herpes. Why would I get a cold sore in my anus? It wasn’t used at all or ever for sexual activities. I used a condom, wouldn’t/shouldn’t this be happening on my cock?

Are you sure it’s not just a Hemorrhoid?

Yea I am pretty sure now. As you know Metalic I have been under plenty of stress.

But I had a cold sore in my mouth, now 1 in my anus, possibly another small one coming… I don’t think its a hemorrhoid… I am going to the doctor tomorrow..

Question.. If this girl was tested positive for herpes before and its on her medical records… Can I sue?

Lol, you can see the pictures I have been taking to track its progress.. Don’t think its a hemorrhoid… Unless they look like cold sores?

Yea I am pretty sure now. As you know Metalic I have been under plenty of stress.

But I had a cold sore in my mouth, now 1 in my anus, possibly another small one coming… I don’t think its a hemorrhoid… I am going to the doctor tomorrow..

Question.. If this girl was tested positive for herpes before and its on her medical records… Can I sue?

Lol, you can see the pictures I have been taking to track its progress.. Don’t think its a hemorrhoid… Unless they look like cold sores?

you used a condom. herpes won’t kill you…it is just embarassing having to tell your future SOs. and also if you sue, you won’t get jack, probably more lawyer fees than what you’re going to get from her.
I wouldnt be so quick to blame this on the chick – you can spread herpes to yourself, ya know.
You get a cold sore on your lip, you touch it (like putting medicine on it or something), then you whack off and you could get the herp on your penis (or if its your anus, if you wiped or something). Its not very common, and oral-to-genital transmission (someone has a coldsore and gives you head and you get it) is more difficult than genital-to-genital, but it can happen, and having a ‘secondary’ transmission method such as by your hand is even MORE rare. However, but my gyno has always warned me about touching my lips when I have a coldsore then touching my self. Always wash your hands after treating/touching a coldsore on your lip.

That said, because its so rare, and you said there wasnt any anal contact with this chick, I’m going to vote its a hemroid.

You said you dont have health ins…are you in school? Is there a health center you can go to? Youre never going to get over your worry till you go to the doc or something.
[quote=Elphaba;96392141]I wouldnt be so quick to blame this on the chick – you can spread herpes to yourself, ya know.
You get a cold sore on your lip, you touch it (like putting medicine on it or something), then you whack off and you could get the herp on your penis (or if its your anus, if you wiped or something). Its not very common, and oral-to-genital transmission (someone has a coldsore and gives you head and you get it) is more difficult than genital-to-genital, but it can happen, and having a ‘secondary’ transmission method such as by your hand is even MORE rare. However, but my gyno has always warned me about touching my lips when I have a coldsore then touching my self. Always wash your hands after treating/touching a coldsore on your lip.

That said, because its so rare, and you said there wasnt any anal contact with this chick, I’m going to vote its a hemroid.

No… I am out of school.. But I am calling the doctor tomorrow.. I don’t know, I am a wreck.. I am all alone at my house for the week, and my mom gave me anti-depressants to take..

I looked in my anus, and there is another small cold sore forming.. I don’t know..

Here’s a breakdown of what happened when we hooked up.. Obviously kissing, she jerked me off, I fingered her.. But my fingers didn’t go anywhere near my anus… We had sex, I wore a condom..

I’m a fucking emotional wreck right now.
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I wouldnt be so quick to blame this on the chick – you can spread herpes to yourself, ya know.
You get a cold sore on your lip, you touch it (like putting medicine on it or something), then you whack off and you could get the herp on your penis (or if its your anus, if you wiped or something). Its not very common, and oral-to-genital transmission (someone has a coldsore and gives you head and you get it) is more difficult than genital-to-genital, but it can happen, and having a ‘secondary’ transmission method such as by your hand is even MORE rare. However, but my gyno has always warned me about touching my lips when I have a coldsore then touching my self. Always wash your hands after treating/touching a coldsore on your lip.

That said, because its so rare, and you said there wasnt any anal contact with this chick, I’m going to vote its a hemroid.

No… I am out of school.. But I am calling the doctor tomorrow.. I don’t know, I am a wreck.. I am all alone at my house for the week, and my mom gave me anti-depressants to take..

I looked in my anus, and there is another small cold sore forming.. I don’t know..

Here’s a breakdown of what happened when we hooked up.. Obviously kissing, she jerked me off, I fingered her.. But my fingers didn’t go anywhere near my anus… We had sex, I wore a condom..

I’m a fucking emotional wreck right now.

I am also really hoping none show up on my dick.. That should be there place I’m seeing them… I don’t know.. If you read the thread I was having constipation problems last week and then had wings two nights in a row.. And I might have caused some problems wiping my ass too much earlier this week and it lead to something? I still have my doubts but I think its herpes.

I spoke with the girl, the conversations are getting ugly. She swears thats shes clean and got tested at the end of the last semester. But I don’t know if I can believe her.

I am also really hoping none show up on my dick.. That should be there place I’m seeing them… I don’t know.. If you read the thread I was having constipation problems last week and then had wings two nights in a row.. And I might have caused some problems wiping my ass too much earlier this week and it lead to something? I still have my doubts but I think its herpes.

I spoke with the girl, the conversations are getting ugly. She swears thats shes clean and got tested at the end of the last semester. But I don’t know if I can believe her.

I think you need to seriously calm down. It’s not a serious issue. You might even have an anal fissure or just some inflammation. A lot of people have rectal problems at some point.

I’m no doctor but by the sound of what you’re reporting, this sounds like a harmless case. Also, you need to not be disrespectful and rude to the girl. People don’t go around intentionally giving people STD’s 99.9 % of the time. I would apologize and stop attacking and blaming her. None of that is going to create the end result you’re looking for anyway. You can’t solve the problem doing that.

I think you need to seriously calm down. It’s not a serious issue. You might even have an anal fissure or just some inflammation. A lot of people have rectal problems at some point.

I’m no doctor but by the sound of what you’re reporting, this sounds like a harmless case. Also, you need to not be disrespectful and rude to the girl. People don’t go around intentionally giving people STD’s 99.9 % of the time. I would apologize and stop attacking and blaming her. None of that is going to create the end result you’re looking for anyway. You can’t solve the problem doing that.

Agreed on being disrespectful. I asked respectfully and she start insulting me saying I was the one that had it and I’m trying to turn it around on her…

Honestly I don’t know. I am usually very conservative sexually. My friends bang everything in site, I have standards and I can’t believe this is happening to me. I am hoping for the anal fissure, but I just don’t know. The anti-depressants aren’t doing anythign either.

Here’s why its the end of the world. I can essentially never have sex without a condom with a significant other. I am in love with a girl and the reason I hooked up was because she gave me no hope of getting back together. Days after I fuck this girl, it starts looking like things are gonna happen between me and the ex. I still love her. And this just squashes everything now.
Question…

I said above that usually when I get a cold, I usually get a cold sore in my mouth or so… Lets say I was checking out the oral sore (I don’t think I touched it), and then wiped my ass and my finger made contact with my anus.. Is that possible? It wouldn’t be herpes then.

I think you need to do some homework before you jump to all these conclusions.

I’ve been doing my symptoms. I have a lot of symptoms of Genital Herpes. I also have a lot of symptoms of a hemorrhoids. It could be something else as well.

I am going to the doctor at 3:15 today. I am terrified.

wtf man, thats really necessary?
So I went to the doctor last Monday, and got bloodwork done because the doctor wasn’t sure.

I got my blood work back today, and I am MOTHER-FUCKING NEGAAAATIVE!!!

Doc said it looked like I had broken/irritated the skin and the sores were from trauma.
Props to finally taking initiative and being negative.

and next time be more selective and careful, the hottest chick on the planet can be ridden with all sorts of nastiness.

Well I mean I was carefull.. Used the rubbers and all… But they aren’t 100% effective, but yea.

So I went to the doctor last Monday, and got bloodwork done because the doctor wasn’t sure.

I got my blood work back today, and I am MOTHER-FUCKING NEGAAAATIVE!!!

Doc said it looked like I had broken/irritated the skin and the sores were from trauma.

I’m shocked.

Question…

I said above that usually when I get a cold, I usually get a cold sore in my mouth or so… Lets say I was checking out the oral sore (I don’t think I touched it), and then wiped my ass and my finger made contact with my anus.. Is that possible? It wouldn’t be herpes then.

I totally posted this as a possibility in my 1st response but you blew me off for "not reading the thread". Thanks. I know this is old, but I didnt get around to reading the rest of the thread till you updated it yesterday.

Glad to know you dont have the herp on your ass though. In any event, like I said before, a situation like the one in the quote IS possible, and b/c your doc said you had broken and irritated skin on your asshole, you gotta be more careful about this. Transmission via your hand is easier (though not still very likely) when you’d be transferring to an area thats has broken skin or is inflamed. Always wash yo hands after you check out an oral sore. And yes, it would still be herpes then if you got a "cold sore" on your ass.

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