Fuck College…

I have only been in one serious relationship that started back in high school and lasted 2 years. I broke things off at a really bad time (2 weeks before prom) and I have regretted it ever since. Now I have been in a dry spell for a year now and it sucks. I’m not one of those guys that would "hit it and quit it" but Im more looking for a relationship. Well last fall when I moved to college I thought I would make some new friends and maybe I would find someone, well that didnt happen. I live like in the smallest dorm on campus and all the chicks are fugly. So one day I went up to this chick in my one of my classes and started talking to her and I asked her out to dinner. I took her to the fucking cheesecake factory of all places (looking back on it this probably the best place to take someone on a first date cuz its pretty fucking nice). Well everything was good and she seemed to have a good time. I got a hug when i dropped her off and she said she talk to me later, so i figured I did alright. I didnt call her or anything and I figured that if she was interested that she would call me, that didnt happen. A couple of days later I saw her in class and it was almost like she was making an effort to not even acknowledge my existence. So all I got out of the whole date was a lousy hug and 50 less bucks in my wallet, thanks a lot bitch!

fish outside your comfort zone; the dorm is a small pool, the college is more like a large sea. Most girls dont like to hook up with guys who live there b.c its awkward if it doesnt work out anyway.

If dating was simple and you got it right the first time no one would be single. just keep trucking bud

fish outside your comfort zone; the dorm is a small pool, the college is more like a large sea. Most girls dont like to hook up with guys who live there b.c its awkward if it doesnt work out anyway.

If dating was simple and you got it right the first time no one would be single. just keep trucking bud

^^ he’s right.. the worst thing i ever did in college was date/hookup with one of my neighbors… the rest of the year afterwards was so awkward..

look for girls in your classes and out and about on campus..
What college are you at man? I’m at GA Tech which is 70% guys and can still find some girls to hang out with. Try getting involved on campus with something so you can find someone with like interests. Oh and first date thing… try to go for inventive and cheap like a picnic in a park or a small local place. Expensive doesn’t always set the right tone and adds pressure.

USF

I think this is the part where you might have gone a little astray. I dont know when exactly you should have called, but calling at some point (maybe a few days later) to say "Hey, I had a great time when we went out and I thought you did to. We should go out again, how about (insert day/time and other date idea here**)"

Part of me wonders if that girl is now thinking, "Wow, I had a great time with that guy, but he never called me again. I guess he didnt have a good time." Yes, she could’ve called and tried to set things up, but if you really did have a good time and wanted to pursue, why didnt YOU call?

At least then you’d give her the chance to A) blow you off completely (saying she cant and doesnt give an alternative day/time/activity) so you can move on and not wonder about this crap or B) accept your offer and keep things going.

Did you try to talk to her when you saw her in class next?

**The guys in the Vag always say you should call w/ a specific date offer(time, day, activity) in mind – something I think is a good idea too

Don’t blame her for things that were the results of your actions, or lack thereof. You chose to spend the money on her, not call her back, etc.
Smooth move not calling her. No wonder she was pissed at you.

Yea I tried to talk to her and I invited her to come with me to dinner for my friend’s birthday. She is extremely busy person though so it probably wouldnt have worked out anyways.

busy people can still make time for things if they really want to.
Dude, USF is full of fucking hot chicks. I would know because I’m one of them and I knew a lot of them

I can tell just from your brief little story that you are looking at a very limited pool of women (like Yuppy pointed out). From experience, don’t just fucking hang out in the dorms. The dorms at USF suck enough. You have to get out instead of just trying to pick up chicks in your class too. College is by far the easiest place to meet women. The library, the sports games, the gym, the local hang outs (The Greenery, Peabody’s, etc.).

Actually step outside your comfort zone and look up all the clubs and intramural sports you could play. Intramural sports is a fantastic way to meet people, trust me.

Learn from that girl that you don’t just take her to the Cheesecake Factory. Why does this girl you barely know deserve a free $50 meal? You could have easily taken her Gators for all you can eat wings for $10 and learned if she was a flake or not.
im still thinking about going to grad school down there too….. If I do… I will harass Beer on here until she let me buy her(and her bf) at least one beer.

Dude, that would be sweet. I would totally hang out with you irl and show you Tampa.

yea i was going to try to do some intramural stuff but i never got around to it, but next fall im def gonna do something.

Until you try everything your are not allowed to bitch about anything. Get out there.

I knew a lot of people who dormed their first year and they all fucking hated it too. USF dorms suck balls. You’ve got to get out and meet people.

Until you try everything your are not allowed to bitch about anything. Get out there.

I knew a lot of people who dormed their first year and they all fucking hated it too. USF dorms suck balls. You’ve got to get out and meet people.

I was in a similar situation when I went to MTU: dorm life blew and I was stuck in a rut. Getting yourself out there and trying new things will definitely help you out. Don’t just wait till the fall to start, get out and enjoy the rest of the semester! I wish you well.

sounds good thanks

Dude, USF is full of fucking hot chicks. I would know because I’m one of them and I knew a lot of them

I can tell just from your brief little story that you are looking at a very limited pool of women (like Yuppy pointed out). From experience, don’t just fucking hang out in the dorms. The dorms at USF suck enough. You have to get out instead of just trying to pick up chicks in your class too. College is by far the easiest place to meet women. The library, the sports games, the gym, the local hang outs (The Greenery, Peabody’s, etc.).

Actually step outside your comfort zone and look up all the clubs and intramural sports you could play. Intramural sports is a fantastic way to meet people, trust me.

Learn from that girl that you don’t just take her to the Cheesecake Factory. Why does this girl you barely know deserve a free $50 meal? You could have easily taken her Gators for all you can eat wings for $10 and learned if she was a flake or not.

Would you actually want to be approached at the gym? My buddy always says nevee tlak to a girl at the gym cuz shes all gross and sweaty etc and doesnt want to be approached. There is a hottie I always see at the gym that has made eye contact regularly for a bit and always smiles… HMMMMMMM

yea i heard from a friend that the gym is like the worst place to hit on a girl. I work out at a place off campus so im not surrounded by too many girls my age.

Some girls hate it, some girls love it! I worked out at the USF gym and had a lot of friends who worked there and they got a ton of numbers/dates. You’d laugh at how 65% of the girls there aren’t there to work out. They’re all done up with their makeup and hair ready to get hit on while they walk on the treadmill.
Isn’t USF ~60% Female? You really should not be complaining at all. I go to a tech school where it is common for a party to have 15 guys and 3 girls. Heck I go to other colleges to pickup women since my school is so deprived.

Yes. The ratio of women to men at USF is nuts, unless of course he’s an Engineering major But since he’s most likely taking Gen Ed courses there are fucking chicks everywhere on that campus.
OP, just so you know-Girls Gone Wild is at Peabody’s tonight. Peabody’s is that really popular hole in the wall bar off Amberly Drive. In other words, a million chicks will be there tonight.

, I so went to the wrong school to pick up chicks.
So what, my school has ~20,000 students meaning a fucking ton of hot girls and I only met a couple cool ones. The rest were all rich, stuck up, snobby etc. Ironically, my gf goes to Harvard and is not like that at all. Point being a school with a ton of hot girls doesn’t = automatic gf.

Oh, and yea I agree with intramurals. Especially Co-Ed if you can. Ive made some good friends thru intramural hockey.

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