there are a lot of fucked up, piece of shit women out there. I met the two most hainus bitches on earth last night…disgruntled crackwhores. I’m talking about so absurdly bizarre and confrontational that it may have disrupted the space-time continuum.

The more i go out and talk to women, the more i realize how difficult it is to find a woman of substance who can just talk and not stand there like you’re auditioning for them. I’ve always held the opinion that I could be with pretty much any woman personality wise, but holy shit my standards are changing.

cliffs: I gave my number to two smokin hot ladies and not a single one of them called. What’s the chances that those bitches called at the same time and jammed up the phone lines?

cliffs v 2: Looking for love in all the wrong places.

the exact same thing can be said about men. There are a minority of decent people out there (in terms of romantic relationships), but the majority are disqualified for some reason or another.

It’s this way for both men and women.

Boys say "all women are whores", girls say "all men are assholes".

/thread

came in here to post this
Stop going to bars/clubs.

BTW, when you go out these nights do you drink? How much would you say you spend on drinks? And how often would you say you go out?

Yep and then like me you find one and fuck it up and after 6 years she leaves.

I only drink one night per week, and that’s 3 to 4 drinks. I’m supposed to go meet some friends later, and I’m not drinking tonight. The last thing I need to do is get soft and fat if I’m going to lift 4-days per week.

Single women don’t congregate in my apartment, the race track, or work, so I have to go somewhere to find them.

Go somewhere, anywhere. I went to a strange harajuku party at a bar last night. Didn’t know what harajuku was until the day before. I met some people, had fun. You can strike a conversation with anyone there when you don’t know shit like I did. It’s pretty easy to ask people what’s this, where it comes from, how they became interested, what seems interesting to them in this, etc.
See, I think the problem is that women at bars and clubs are there specifically so guys can audition for them. If you want to meet a woman you can talk to, go to a bookstore.

I spent 3 years with ZERO desire to chase women for this exact reason.. it’s such a huge turn off. Seems like every woman has a check list of requirements you have to meet. Whatever happened to getting to know someone just to enjoy the company and have some fun?

The difference is, women actually do pay attention to people’s personalities like that, so in a sense they go through a lot more meaningful relationships than men do. As such, they reach the point of wanting to weed out the undesirables according to a checklist a lot sooner than men do, since most men are mainly interested in getting laid at first and don’t really go past the skin until later.

its still an audition/interview

And you whine about not finding any women. They may not congregate in your appartment, but they are fucking EVERYWHERE. So approach them everywhere.
you can never meet a "real" person when alcohol is involved (i.e. the bar) and when i say "real" i mean it as in not "fake"

No one can be their true self in that setting. find a new way to meet women. We aren’t all that way.
I think you would get less of the interview/audition feeling if yourself truly have no interest beyond casual, friendly conversation and you show it unambiguously.
I winged with some buddies this weekend, and realized that I’m just a cocky, raging asshole…who means well but love jovial debate and childish cheap shots, with a mature delivery. There aren’t going to be as many women to play with who have the mental capacity, but when they do it will be a really good match.

So I went to a few more bars, got blown out on a couple, hooked on 3 really well. I then met up with some buddies and found a bad ass, awesome friend of a friend. I’ve known her for a while, but this time I did something about it. She was in a bad mood at the beginning of the night, so I bailed on the booth and talked to girls all night and ran game. Then, after a couple hours of that think she had enough of the lack of interest and came and got me…its a lot easier when you know how to play the game. This is a cool chick who fought back and forth with me all night with almost perfect chemistry. Two weeks ago, I would have hooked up with the chick who may have been slightly hotter with big boobs, but looked confused.

I’ll chill out with her this weekend, but now I have to resist one-itis.

There are likely plenty that have the mental capacity to spar with you but due to childish cheep shots, they simply don’t engage because they immediately recognize the immature behavior. Ask anyone that’s graduated HS if they’d like to return…99% say no, the other 1% are nerds.

Whenever I meet someone that likes to engage in this behavior, whether male or female, I shut down all communication with that person. It’s not because I don’t know what to say or because I don’t have the mental agility to hang….I do. I just like giving those idiots plenty of rope with which to hang themselves.

I disagree that it will be a really good match. Childish cheep shots don’t bring people closer together.

But good luck with that girl….perhaps she’ll prove me wrong. I suspect tho, once she tires of the games she’ll simply move on.

obviously not a fan of british humor.

Actually I love british humor and even childish humor (ala Dumb and Dumber).

Childish cheep shots tho? no…not a fan at all. In fact, it’s quite transparent to me. To me it’s like an elementary school boy that likes a certain girl so instead of hanging out with her, being her friend and getting to know her he runs up and punches her in the arm.

It’s a case of actions and words not matching up. He likes her but his actions say he doesn’t. The same thing applies to childish cheep shots.

obviously I haven’t accurately conveyed the topic here.
Lastnight I realized you should never lie to your woman and tell her you picked up the DVD she wants that isn’t out for another 2 days.

wow…some people

I’m wondering….do you have a mullet or a wifebeater?

k…splain plz

no but I want a mullet that would kick some ass.. then get a nascar shirt and some ZUBAS

remember zubas?

fuck yeah….ZUBAS FTW
last night i realized to never put a girl before you, because so many of them are simply just attention-seeking… girl telling me that she loved me, kissed me on friday, than saturday treated me like shit, as if i didn’t even exist to her.

just trying to work on my best to forget about it.

You totally should’ve called her ass on it, in public.

"What, now we’re not talking? Are we making up for the extra face-time we had last night, or what? You didn’t hurt your throat, did you? You did get pretty loud a couple of times."

.

lol

they say that negative pushing is ineffective compared to positive pushing when it comes to social corrective behavior, but "they" say a lot of stupid dumbass shit.

If it = the girl, I agree. Move on to someone who doesn’t play those stupid games….there are plenty to choose from.

slut shaming. yay.

Use sparingly. Apply only as directed. Keep away from eyes.
its not at all difficult to find what you seek

you need to use methods to filter out the unsuitable women

Anti-Dump’s Machine FTW

btw everything you said about women applies to men as well

or grow up and realize that not everyone will want to share their affection with you.

Yeah, but we’re talking about someone who kissed a dude and said she loved him one day, then ignored him the next.

It’s not the lack of affection that’s the issue, it’s the total fuckedupness of that come-here-go-away kind of behavior.

I came here to post this.

And being a douche in public will totally show her what she’s missing? No, it’s all the same.
A farmers market or a craft fair… the place whores do not typically go.

I think the point is that ultimately the guy who calls her out on it, leaves the situation extremely satisfied, for calling her out on it.

Whereas if he behaves "maturely" and represses it, he leaves the situation equally if not more pissed off than before.

It’s not to teach her a lesson or bring justice to the situation. It’s a decision between feeling awesome and empowered for shutting down the person who hurt you, and feeling belittled and hurt.

As well you know. So, shush.

i wanted too, but there is more to it than that with this girl, she played my roommate and i was to stupid to realize she was "playing" me. I wanted to call her out and just make her feel for a second how she had made me feel, but this girl has problems, abuse of pills, family problems, and i couldn’t bring myself to be a jackass. However, after that night, i simply cannot be her friend or talk to her, she lied about everything..

only thing i was thinking about doing was waiting a week (once my feelings settle down) and write a letter to her mother to give to her therapist to explain some of these girls problems, because she lies a great deal to her therapist, and even though she hurt me beyond belief, and i do not want to hold contact with her, i feel that as someone who promised to help her, and as a decent human, that maybe i should do that and hope she gets the help she needs…. but i don’t know.

yeah, problem is, i tend to only fall for females once every couple of years, and when i fall for girls, i fall for them pretty hard. however, obviously i have no choice but to get over it, which i will, considering i am feeling much better than the original post. i just hope it doesn’t take me another 3 years to find someone i think is worth going after…

she kissed me, went in for the kiss twice on friday. she told me there is a reason why everyone in her family thinks we are going to get married, and the reason she loves me so dearly is i give her the unconditional love that she could have only dreamt of.. this was all said out of her free will, all i said was, "hey, so how do you really feel about me?" and i let her go, as to make sure i wasn’t leading her into any answers.

when she acted distant on saturday, i asked her to come talk to me, twice, she ignored me, did not, after i spent countless nights talking to her and helping her when she was crying, trying to fight her addiction problem, etc.. i think i deserved 5 minutes of her time for her to explain to me what was going on.

but, ultimately, i didn’t do anything "jackass" so i guess you were right.

but what do people think of me writing a letter to her mom (who seems to be kin to me) and lay out some of the girls problems? keep in mind she dropped out of school this semester due to her problem, and although her mom knows what is going on, i do not think she REALLY knows what is going on..

No, you’ll only feel vindicated in the moments before you realize that she still doesn’t want to return your affections and could go on forever without ever thinking of you again. Yay for momentary satisfaction but nay for still lasting bitterness over the rejection.

But oh yeah, you’d totes get her by calling her out in public! Even though you’d probably just come off like a weirdo and she’d be even more turned off on you…though she could still have you back if she wanted to and you’d take her back in a heartbeat, and the both of you would know that. Solutions > Reactions.

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