I swear, I feel like I should just disconnect myself from my friends…

On the up side, I had my hockey team last night thank me for putting together the team again and applaude me for doing so. It felt nice to know that I made a difference in the lives of 14 other people.

Now, here we go… why is it, when I want to do something, people just shit on me? Case in point. My friend told me earlier this year, we were taking a vacation in July. He specifically mentioned around 4th of July time. We talked about going to Florida.

Ok, so that changes last month when he found a new girlfriend. He’s been dating her a month (though they act like a couple of 2 years) and mentioned how her birthday is in July and he is going to request some time off to go on vacation. Specifically, around the time we were supposed to go.

So, I remind him, we had talked about going. So he says, "alright, maybe we will all go together. Let me talk it over with her". This was 2 weeks ago.

Tonight, he sends me a text message saying he booked a Vegas vacation with his new gf just now. He never asked me if I wanted to go, nothing. Sheesh, glad I didn’t take the time off based upon our conversation.

Now yes, I understand he wants to go with his gf somewhere. That’s fine. But can’t he at least say "let’s go somewhere another time?" Nope, didn’t even get that out of him.

I would ask other people to go with me, but they are all full of excuse. Always the same "I don’t have the money" or "I don’t have the time at work" or some bullshit they make up which usually is just an excuse to not go with me. I’m beginning to start to fee like people don’t want to be around me now again. So, if such is the case, maybe I need to distance myself from certain people. I did that once for a year or two. I didn’t like it, but I didn’t have this stress. So fuck all of these people!

people change when they are in relationships dont let it get too you. And the rest have solid excuses.

Are you sure its bullshit? it oculd be legitimate excuses.

take a vacation yourself or on a singles cruise if you really want to.

people change when they are in relationships dont let it get too you. And the rest have solid excuses.

Are you sure its bullshit? it oculd be legitimate excuses.

take a vacation yourself or on a singles cruise if you really want to.

Part of me wants to believe their excuses, but when they tell me these excuses and 1 month later tell me about a vacation they are booking in the year, I don’t know.. makes me feel like "well, we didn’t want to go on vacation with you, we want to do this instead." And I am sure if I was asked to go somewhere with them, I’d go.

Yeah, thought about visiting some friends out west, but one is moving in June anyway and the other, not sure about.. I’m not really a big vacation goer on my own to be honest though. I think it has a lot to do with being brought up as an only child. I always feel I need to have someone there with me to enjoy myself, otherwise I’m just not too social….
hmm sounds like a friend of mine, grew up as a only child and hates being alone.

always has to do everything with someone.

U should hint at always wanting to go on vacation or something with them.
it sounds like a relationship that’s moving really fast, I can imagine they would want to be alone. it’s not like a group of friends was going down together and didn’t invite you.

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