This is a sucky feeling. The basics of it comes down to things that haven been happening. I gave up on going out of my way for people, beacause I always got stepped on in the end. I figured, might as well go ahead though and continue to try… at least show that I’m still there.

So, this weekend, I got an extra pair of Yankees tickets for tomorrow’s game. I have asked forty people if they want to go, FOR FREE! 2 responded to me saying they couldn’t. Ok, cool, at least I got the response. The other 38 people, well.. even though they received the text message, haven’t even acknowledged me with a response. I am starting to feel like I need new friends or more friends now, friends who appreciate these things I do for them or who will at least acknowledge me.

On top of this, it gets worse…

A couple of weekends ago, I hung out with my ex-gf. I asked her if she knew anything about our mutual friend’s house warming party the following weekend. Keep in mind, I helped these same people move last month. Everything seemed cool between my ex-gf and I, though she wasn’t giving me much info about herself (tried being a friend, asking her about any guys.. she just said drama right now and left it at that).

Anyway, ex-gf told me that the friends delayed the house warming another week, this weekend. Needless to say, I am here at home, not at a house warming party. I’m not 100% if they had it or not, but if they did then I never got an invite. I can only speculate that they had the house warming party and invited my ex-gf, who probably went with a guy, and not me to avoid problems. If I find out this is the truth, I need to have a serious talk with my friend in growing up a little bit….

This same friend, asked me this week if I new of any house rentals in Florida for a "friend" he has who wants to take a vacation down there. He seemed to be beating around the bush about his friend. Honestly, I think he was asking me about this for my ex-gf, who probably plans on going on a vacation with a guy. Being the bigger person, I answered his question, didn’t ask him which friend this was for and left it at that.. but seriously, if it was my ex-gf that wanted to know, couldn’t she just fucking call me herself and ask?!?! We were cool 2 weeks ago, so what the hell! Again, I’m assuming… but usually when I speculate like this, I’m dead on with these people.
I get this shit happen to me too. But what I do is I try to confront people. Never works out sometimes…

For example my best friend of 8 years for some reason started ignoring me (not answering my calls) because I was telling him to pay me his share of restaurant bills. He paid me, but that was the last I heard of him. He then told me to "leave him alone"

Now I’m sort of by myself, but I found a lot of other things to be preoccupied about. I just moved out last week, trying to start working out, and also start my own side-business.
I’m going to say this and hope it more sticks in your head, rather than offend you….But from all your posts you seem very annoying in a kind of pushover way.

I know this is a forum to vent but you make a ton of threads and all of them are whining about something, so I have to assume you are just the same IRL. Just a thought. Doesn’t sound like your friends are that fond of you, seeing as how you read your best friends IMs and found out that he also thinks you have no spine.

Might want to find some new friends who care about your feelings.

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