Met a woman a couple weeks ago. Thought things were going ok. Told me she didn’t have a bf, and all that BS. Well, found out otherwise tonight. Got a call at 3am from a random guy asking me to step up. Gave me his address, so I rolled over there just to see wtf was going on. Bad idea! First of all, I curbed my bumper on a tall parking bumper. Will be at least a few hundred to get her fixed Then exchanged some words with this guy. No fight broke out. Not worth it. At least, now, I know what the deal is. Always getting played by women.

I wouldn’t have driven there. Well I’ve done something similar, but the guy never showed up. What if he had buddies with him, or a weapon? He probably isn’t even her bf, but it’s not worth it to hang around a girl with that kind of drama surrounding her.

What were you hoping for when you drove over there? So what, some dude she just met calls you and tells you to stop seeing her and you just go, OK.

You’re prolly better off without that kind of chick anyways.

Why did you even go?
That’s the weirdest thing I’ve ever heard (the meeting up some guy who turns out to be her bf).
You know what I would have done if someone I didn’t know called me at 3am and wanted me to fight him? I would have hung up and gone back to bed.

He wants to fight, fine, I want to sleep…and there’s not a damn thing he can do about it.

Sounds like all 3 (you, her, and her supposed bf) could do with a little growing up.
Yes, was a very stupid thing. Wasn’t sure what I was thinking. My intentions were not to fight. Just wanted to find out how some random guy got my number and called talking shit in the middle of the night. At least, I know the truth now. Downside is I like the bar this chick works at. Don’t want to show my face there anymore. There were some other good looking women there too. Maybe in a few months.

Plus side, just got the bumper fixed for free. You can still see a small gash at the very bottom of the bumper. All in all, could have turned out a lot worse for everyone, especially me.
Why would her being at the bar EVER stop you from going? That’s the dumbest thing I’ve read so far in this thread.

It’s not like you guys were in love or dating for months, jesus. Go to the bar, ignore the shit out of her and meet the tons of other single women there.

this isn’t junior high. It’s not going to be all awkward or anything…act like an adult, ignore someone you don’t want to talk to.
You guys are right. I need to man up. One of the other chicks did say that "if she dumps you, call me".

GET ON THE PHONE RIGHT NOW!

fucking !!!!

There’s no better form of revenge than living well.

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I am in Japan. Turns out it was a misunderstanding. We talked about the situation, and she still wants to see me. Assurred me that I wouldn’t be hearing from her ex anymore. It’s always been hard for me to trust women, but I’m going to try to trust her and not think too much about the situation. We’ll see how this goes.

Eh, I would’ve moved on to a girl that didn’t have an ex that much in her life…but whatever floats your boat.

Maybe I’m wrong, but are you sure that your not setting yourself up for more fail? This girl put you in an akward situation once, whats stopping her from doing it twice? Is the ex-bf magically out of the question? Look out for yourself broseph, she might not be worth it.

I told you Japanese girls were trouble.

Expect DRAMA with a capital DRAMA.
^^ Not a Japanese woman … a Phillipino woman. I’m trying not to think too much about it, and to just let things flow. I tend to think way too too much about my relationships with women to the point of being self destructive. Just going to see what happens. Maybe I am setting myself up again, but it’s too soon to really tell. If so, there will always be more women in the future.
Well, you guys were right. I’m quite sure that she’s gotten back with her ex, or at least, is spending time with her ex. The last time we were together, I know that she was texting him. She said it was nothing, but she was sending quite a few messages. Now, she doesn’t really return my calls or text messages promptly like before. She still texts me and we talk every now and then, but she hasn’t mentioned anything about wanting to see me now. Kind of sucks. I think I might have been there just to make this guy jealous.
I’m sorry, I know I shouldn’t laugh it just was so predictable.

Don’t contact her in any way ever again. Move on.
You should really change your nickname.

Oh and fuck her….you’ll find another woman soon.

The nickname is correct … Rico no suave. It suits me. To update you guys, you were right. Just found out tonight that I’ve been lied to. This woman has a boyfriend, and I think she is pregnant with this guy’s baby. As the thread title states … I’m a chump. I’m not mad at her or anyone … just mad at myself for not trusting my feelings. Laugh away, because I deserve it
filipino women are worse.. they speak english and can fuck you over that way. /thread.

ps, at least the japanese broads can say "i don’t speak good english."

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