Long story short, this girl I know always flirts with me, gives me her number, I just called her and got the "I was just kidding around, I HOPE YOU DONT FEEL STUPID"

I think I’m going to go get drunk.

Fucking christ, some women are just horrible

I know right?

If she would have just said "No thanks" I’d still feel bad but you throw that in there and now I do feel like a fucking moron.

God fucking Damn.
Women say the same shit about us. "There’s this guy I’ve been fooling around with, and tonight I told him I wanted to go steady, and he said ‘I’m not looking for a committed relationship, I hope you don’t feel used’." It goes both ways.

Yeah but at least she got sex out of it

I just feel like a dipshit now
As the drunk guy I was talking to last night said, "if a girl decides to ignore you or dosnt give a shit, "fuck them!"
you are not pathetic, she is a bitch

how old is she?

but then id be getting arrested for rape

but seriously, I know, I just feel like shit right now.

.

That sounds like something a 15 year old brat would do. Age?

I turn 23 in a few days, she is 20 (I think)

Also, I feel pathetic because every time I actually like a girl pretty much the same shit happens.

I’m not even going to tell you what the last one said to me.

she sounds too old to be that type of bratty bitchy.

where are you meeting these girls? maybe you are getting them from a pool of bad ones and need to find a new place to meet girls who wont be like this. at 20, a girl should know better, and at 23, you should be able to find someone who is honest and not playing games

We work at the same restaurant, the last one works there too but I’ve known her for a long time, she got drunk and said a bunch of shit that never should have been said, haven’t talked to her since.

I met a girl a few months ago in class, and it was more or less the same thing as today. I guess I just have a way of picking them.

Figures. Don’t date women you work with at a restaurant. Just because it’s easier doesn’t mean it’s better. Get out of your comfort zone and meet better women.

what is it that is attracting you to these girls? are they the prissy high maintenance designer clothes full make up wearing girls?

I’ve worked there a long time, and the girls I know from there I knew before hand, I just got to know them better after they got jobs there.

I think its just the women I am attracted to, this same shit happens when I meet girls at school.

I tried to ask out a girl a few months ago and it turns out she was engaged she didn’t even have a ring on. She was engaged but he didn’t actually buy her a ring yet. I thought she was lying but I got on facebook and sure enough his name was on there. I felt more bad for her than me after that one

Not even close.
I really dont know what it is about the girls I tend to like, none of them seem to have anything in common.

do any of them have anything in common with YOU?

That’s just bad luck though

Other than the fact that they actually talk to me?

Seriously though, its probably the sense of humor, every girl I’ve ever liked has had a pretty good sense of humor. Other than that there isn’t anything that stands out that I can think of.

thanks
maybe try finding girls while doing an activity that you enjoy, so that you know you guys already have some base in common

are you going for other girls that are younger, or basically around that same age? girls around your age should be mature enough to not be little bitches anymore….and i would normally assume class is a great place to meet someone

Yeah the girl that was engaged was, but otherwise I think there must be something I am doing wrong.

Maybe I should lower my standards

Around the same age, but I started school late and then I changed majors so many times that I’m pretty far behind so I am usually 2 years older than everyone else. Not a big deal but I think it has a little to do with it.

The last girl was a year older and she was the worst yet.

eek, seriously? what is wrong with these girls?

i wouldnt normally say lower your standards, but are you going after people just totally different than you? or is your approach all wrong somehow? describe these girls, and describe you

I’d rather not go that in depth, but the last one was way out of my league, and very different than me, big into partying and a huge pothead, which doesn’t really bother me but not what I normally do.

The girl that shot me down today, I really liked, very laid back and just cool to hang out with, and I thought for sure she would want to go out with me the way she has been acting, thats what makes me feel so shitty about it.
Women will flirt with guys they don’t see themselves having sex with or having a relationship with. These are women that are attention whores. They’ll take it from anyone that will give it to them.

Yeah I’m aware of that, what pisses me off is that this one gave me her number and told me to call her.

She’s just playing her little female games and testing you.

And I’m not doing that shit, I already deleted her number. fuck her.

Give her attitude, let her know that her behavior is not gonna fly with you. Ignore her. She’ll want your cock if you do that. Then you fuck her and tell her it’s not working out. Give her the good ol’ "it’s not you, it’s me" just to rub it in.

what a bitch

"YEAH THAT WAS FUNNY LOLZ YOU GOT ME"

cunt.
Damn it, just hang in there…

I just finished school, and can’t quite meet girls at work, so what I decided, This weekend I will volunteer at an art show in the city (3 days). I should meet a lot of people and work along side girls. Try it out!

the website i got it from was

Plus my apartment also is gonna have a "meet and greet" event where we get to meet our neighbors.. Should also be interesting

Keep your options open!
What iwishyouwerebeer said is true, you need to get out of your comfort zone. I’m hoping to volunteer at as many establishments that interest me, as I can during this summer
So I went out weith my buddy and played some disc fgolf and then went to a bar ansd drank and played darts. I told him what she said and we hasd some good laughs about it.

Now I am going to go take a naop and then maybe get up and drink some more.

Much better night than it though it wouild be.
Mate, nothing to do with you. She was just an egotistical little bitch. Hurts at the time, but need to move on.

This is coming from someone who was broken up with (8 month relationship) with an sms saying "i think we should just be friends and i dont have time to be friends with someone like you" so you do get over it. Hurts at the time but just gotta move on.

Some people just mature much later and still act like 15 year olds, even at 20, or 25 or even 30.

Edit, just saw your post, when you can laugh about it with mates rather than feeling sorry for yourself, it’s probably a good thing.
Just woke up from my nap

Just wanted to say thanks for everything everyone has said on here so far, made me feel a lot better about it. I was pretty pissed this afternoon when it happened but now a few hours later it seems kind of funny.

I should listen to you guys and try and meet some girls in other places, or when school starts back up. Obviously, meeting girls at work isn’t going too well for me.
do yourself a favor and don’t date girls you work with…anywhere

more often than not it leads to more bullshit than its worth

but she is hot

anyway, usually I TRY to stay away from it but she is only here for the summer then she wont be working until next summer, so I figured what the hell.
on another note, I told everyone what she said and they all think she is a bitch now

Her actions are simply confirming what you believe about yourself and that seems to be, that you are not worthy of a healthy relationship.

Change what you believe about yourself. When you do, you’ll she her actions in the proper light….and that is that she’s a fucked up chick that likes to play games with people then laugh at how gullible they are. This is a really immature way of living in this world and treating people. She’s in for a difficult time in life.

So don’t fucking worry about her and what you used to think about how "great" she is or whatever. She likes to fuck people over. Meh…move on….no great loss here.

The thing you can change, yourself and how you view yourself.

I actually have gotten this advice from a friend a few years ago and I really thought about it and I have made some changes, I still need to make some more, but it has really helped me to live a better life and just be happier in general.

I think if he hadn’t told me all the things he did, or if I wouldn’t have listened, I probably wouldn’t still be here today.
"But women don’t play games."

werd
Wait she gave you her number then said I was just kidding around about wanting to talk to you in the future?

She was flirting with me gave me the number and told me to call her, then she said she was just kidding.

Hey kurt, nobody can make you feel anyway, just don’t give her the power. Maybe she just chickened out herself, did you ever consider that? Never know. Why don’t you ask her why she did that and why she seems to be flirting with you. Ask her what that is all about?

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