my 15 year old sister is on birth control

And my mother got it for her. She is a dumb little 15 year old girl and hangs out with 18-20 year old guys. She basically doesn’t even look like she’s completely done with puberty yet. This is very disturbing to me. My father is doing nothing about it, he hasn’t even voiced an opinion. It doesn’t seem like my mother has even tried to straighten my sister out. My mother got knocked up when she was very young. I guess history repeats itself. Am i wrong to think this is messed up?


I am 20 years old. Yesterday night 2 guys came over my our house to see my sister after my parents left. One of them was 19 and the other was 18. I REALLY felt like something bad was happening here and I wanted to kick them out. But I didn’t since nobody else in my family has said anything about it. What should I do next time?
My sister went on bc when she was a teen but it was to regulate her period. She definitely didn’t hang out with 20 year old dudes when she was 15. Eww.

I agree with you that’s messed up.

It sounds to me that while your mom got knocked up when she was young, she’s trying to prevent your sis from having the same thing happend to her by putting her on BC. You seem to think that by putting her on BC, your mom and dad (by omission) are giving her the go ahead on having sex….I dont see it this way…I mean, if she is having sex, and your parents cant really stop it, the least they can do is keep her from getting pregnant. Think about what might happen if they just say "Just dont have sex"….I’m sure that would work out great.

This, on the other hand, may be something your parents/you can do something about. Dude, there were guys in your house that you didnt want there. As the only adult in the house, you have the right to say who can be there and who cant. Next time this happends, kick them out. If your sis complains to your parents (which I doubt will happen) just ask her what the hell she’s doing having 18/19 yr old dudes over w/o your parents home/knowing whats going on…
i went on birth control when i was 15 better safe than sorry, IMO.

you can be in denial about your kids being sexually active and pretend like if she’s not on birth control then she’s not having sex, but that doesn’t work so well when she gets pregnant at age 16. your mom is probably trying to protect her from getting pregnant at a young age. yes, i think it’s a bit inappropriate for her to be hanging out with lots of older guys, but at least she’s not going to get knocked up.

So its messed up that a 15yr old girl is trying NOT to get pregant? WTF?

Pretty sure the only messed up thing in the situation is the fact that she’s hanging out and possibly sexually active with men 5 years older than her at the age of 15. She’s still a kid.
With the whole going on birth control thing…there are various reasons why it is a good idea…obviously prevention of pregnancy, but also regulation of periods and hormones. So that, you’re overreacting about.

Now, as far as the older guys coming over….TALK TO YOUR PARENTS! Don’t make a thread about it on a message board, go to your parents and tell them what happened. Say something like "Hey, I don’t think this is an appropriate thing to do while you guys are gone".
So, you WANT her to get knocked up?

Also, ignore it and bail out of that house. Go to college, then graduate/medical training, and then they can all go f themselves.

And my mother got it for her. She is a dumb little 15 year old girl and hangs out with 18-20 year old guys. She basically doesn’t even look like she’s completely done with puberty yet. This is very disturbing to me. My father is doing nothing about it, he hasn’t even voiced an opinion. It doesn’t seem like my mother has even tried to straighten my sister out. My mother got knocked up when she was very young. I guess history repeats itself. Am i wrong to think this is messed up?

I am 20 years old. Yesterday night 2 guys came over my our house to see my sister after my parents left. One of them was 19 and the other was 18. I REALLY felt like something bad was happening here and I wanted to kick them out. But I didn’t since nobody else in my family has said anything about it. What should I do next time?

Sure it’s messed up but not nearly as messed up as being completely oblivious to the fact her 15 year old daughter is regularly getting poked by 20 year olds. She obvioulsy doesn’t want the cycle to continue and well, sometimes you just can’t tell a teenager something is wrong to do because they’re going to do it anyways.

I’m actually glad the mom took some steps instead of sticking her head in the sand. It’s not perfect, far from it but at least the mom is acknowledging the fact her daughter is getting laid and is probably retarded about birth control as most teenagers are.

i went on birth control when i was 15 better safe than sorry, IMO.

you can be in denial about your kids being sexually active and pretend like if she’s not on birth control then she’s not having sex, but that doesn’t work so well when she gets pregnant at age 16. your mom is probably trying to protect her from getting pregnant at a young age. yes, i think it’s a bit inappropriate for her to be hanging out with lots of older guys, but at least she’s not going to get knocked up.

. I don’t see the big deal. I went on BC when I was 15. Better to be have safe sex than run around having unprotected sex. Let’s be honest, if she wants to have sex no amount of wrist slapping and telling her NOT to have sex is going to work. At least the mother is going about this is a responsible manner. It’s just the nature of teenagers these days.

Edit: As for the 20 year old men, that’s a whole separate issue and needs to be addressed as such.
would you rather her be on BC or rely on her or her partner using condoms? the girl is going to have sex whether anyone wants her to or not so she might as well make sure she’s not going to be knocked up

sounds like you’re just pissed because your little sister is getting dick.
Better she’s on birth control instead of fucking guys without a condom or BC.

Weren’t you having sex with that girl without a condom?

And my mother got it for her. She is a dumb little 15 year old girl and hangs out with 18-20 year old guys. She basically doesn’t even look like she’s completely done with puberty yet. This is very disturbing to me. My father is doing nothing about it, he hasn’t even voiced an opinion. It doesn’t seem like my mother has even tried to straighten my sister out. My mother got knocked up when she was very young. I guess history repeats itself. Am i wrong to think this is messed up?

I am 20 years old. Yesterday night 2 guys came over my our house to see my sister after my parents left. One of them was 19 and the other was 18. I REALLY felt like something bad was happening here and I wanted to kick them out. But I didn’t since nobody else in my family has said anything about it. What should I do next time?

her having sex with people 4-5 years older than her is a completely separate issue. Fact is, if she’s having sex, being on BC is better than not being on it.

I hope they’re still using condoms tho

It sounds to me that while your mom got knocked up when she was young, she’s trying to prevent your sis from having the same thing happend to her by putting her on BC. You seem to think that by putting her on BC, your mom and dad (by omission) are giving her the go ahead on having sex….I dont see it this way…I mean, if she is having sex, and your parents cant really stop it, the least they can do is keep her from getting pregnant. Think about what might happen if they just say "Just dont have sex"….I’m sure that would work out great.

This, on the other hand, may be something your parents/you can do something about. Dude, there were guys in your house that you didnt want there. As the only adult in the house, you have the right to say who can be there and who cant. Next time this happends, kick them out. If your sis complains to your parents (which I doubt will happen) just ask her what the hell she’s doing having 18/19 yr old dudes over w/o your parents home/knowing whats going on…

or just call the cops and tell them two adults are in your house with you and your 15 year old sister, and you’re not sure what’s going on
Kids these days are getting more and more "mature" younger and younger. I personally don’t think its that weird to see a 15 year old on BC. I work at victorias secret, and I see many girls her age or younger come in to buy sexy panties and outfits.

I think you should realize that your sister is not a child anymore, shes getting older. You should be happy that she is atleast using BC, and hopefully using condoms. As an older brother, I would just talk to her about being safe, and talk to your parents about who she hangs out with. In the end, it’s your parents decision and not yours about that stuff.

I would personally just try to encourage her to BE SAFE, and be supportive and understanding of her. I love my brothers because they are there for me and someone to confide in when I can’t talk to my parents about certain issues. Tell her she can come to you about things, and she won’t be judged. It will probably give you a better relationship. I know it did with my brothers.
That sucks and is really messed up. But she’s obviously sexually active anyway so getting her on BC was the right thing to do. If I were you I would be supportive and talk to her about condom usage. Sometimes kids that age are embarrassed about getting them or don’t know where to get them, so maybe you can help out that way. It sounds crazy but she’s not this innocent little girl in your mind anymore, so you have to face and deal with reality accordingly instead of trying to force her into being someone she’s not. It sucks that she’s fucking 19/20 year olds. I mean that is illegal isn’t it? But it’s better to do it in her own home than some other random place.
As a parent, I have to be realistic. Teenagers (even younger now days) are going to have sex if they want to no matter what a parent does to try to prevent it. Seriously, when I was in high school we had people getting caught IN school having sex.

Knowing this, the only defense I feel I have in protecting my kids is education and making sure they are using the proper protection.

My bf has full custody of his 15 yrs old daughter and she looks at me as a mom. After discussing it with my bf (making him fully aware that if she is going to have sex she will do it no matter what we say) I took her to planned parenthood got her on BC pills, got her started on the HPV vaccinations, and instructed her how to put a condom on a guy and made sure she had some in her purse because she should never trust him to have protection and she should make sure she is always protecting herself.

However, I have also educated her on not only the physical risk but also the emotional risk associated with having sex.

So, I completely understand why your mom has put her on BC pills and think that was a wise decision.

As far as the older guys coming to the house….TELL YOUR PARENTS!!!!!!
I would be IRATE if this sort of thing went on behind my back when we left the house. You are 20 yrs old and have every right to kick these guys out of the house, at the very least (if your parents have a cell phone) call them and tell them these guys are at the house and let them come back and bust your sister and kick these guys out.
Or how about as a parent you raise the girls to respect themselves enough to not have sex at 15? Damn thats a crazy concept isn’t it?

That is such a stupid argument. "oh if they are going to have sex anyways". Your kids are going to use drugs, why not provide them with clean needles? LOL

You need to give your children goals and focus. Being in situations, where a 15 yr old girl is having sex should not be acceptable. At 15 you should be focused on school, sports, or whatever else you are passionate about. Stay classy America.

Or how about as a parent you raise the girls to respect themselves enough to not have sex at 15? Damn thats a crazy concept isn’t it?

That is such a stupid argument. "oh if they are going to have sex anyways". Your kids are going to use drugs, why not provide them with clean needles? LOL

You need to give your children goals and focus. Being in situations, where a 15 yr old girl is having sex should not be acceptable. At 15 you should be focused on school, sports, or whatever else you are passionate about. Stay classy America.

regardless, if she’s having sex, it’s better she’ s on BC than not

Or how about as a parent you raise the girls to respect themselves enough to not have sex at 15? Damn thats a crazy concept isn’t it?

That is such a stupid argument. "oh if they are going to have sex anyways". Your kids are going to use drugs, why not provide them with clean needles? LOL

You need to give your children goals and focus. Being in situations, where a 15 yr old girl is having sex should not be acceptable. At 15 you should be focused on school, sports, or whatever else you are passionate about. Stay classy America.

Although I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having sex at 15, I’d encourage my child to wait a bit longer.

But this girl is already having sex. Good luck with trying to make her stop.
I’ve heard the way these guys talk to my sister and her girlfriends. They are all white kids from the suburbs, but they say shit to each other like "don’t trip", "why you gotta play me like that", and other things that stupid people say. The guys call them all "bitches", and tell them to "shut yo mouth ho". They dress like gangsters too. They also tell her how they are gonna fuck her in the ass later. She is part of an uneducated crowd. They are all morons, and they are all going to end up as white trash.

So yeah, raising your kids to have some self respect would be the best solution. My parents failed.

I don’t love my sister or anyone else in the family, so I’m really not going to do anything about it. It’s just gross to watch these older losers hanging out with young girls because girls 18-20 years old actually know that those guys are fucking homos. And it’s unbelievable how my sister and her retarded little friends actually seem to enjoy being treated like "hoe’s" and being told to shut the fuck up. Idiots. I’m gonna bail on this trash family as soon as I have enough money saved up.
no. She definitely got it because my mom doesn’t want her getting pregnant at a young age like she did.

I am SOOOOO glad I don’t have you for a brother. Hearing that, I honestly feel bad for her, and I don’t think you made this thread to try and help her.

She has probably came from a shit family, which includes you. So no wonder she has no self respect. And you aren’t helping her out or giving it to her. In a girls life, an older brother is usually a VERY respected and good thing to have. They are there to protect, to help their sister out when they need it, to be there to listen, and to make sure no bad shit happens.

You are a failure of that.

*I’m sorry to be so rude, but the poster was acting like he was concerned, and then making a post like that proves it wrong. And it’s very upsetting to me, the poor girl probably doesn’t know anybetter..

and that’s a bad thing?

No, I meant I agree with him that it’s messed up that a 15 year old is hanging out with 20 year old guys, not that she’s on bc. As I said, my sister was on bc as a teenager, too.
It’s clear she needs more guidance, but I’m glad she’s on birthcontrol, the situation could be worse. Pregnant by a 20 year old at 15/16, that is bad news.
The BC wollah, but the Parents not doing enough in terms of education. I think the word ‘mature’ is totally incorrect placed in this context. Fucked up is more like it. I know my father would have smashed those 20 year olds into the ground, and showed every corner of the house to that 15 year old lady , just to make it clear that its not ok to get knocked up by random 20 year olds. Cares not to use violence if it prevents her from falling into a greater misery.

These guys are just thinking ‘we can get some easy pussy here’, they knock her up and then leave her.

Parents are supposed to protect their children against predators, and i am not seeing it happening here. You shouldn’t allow these messed up situations in your life. If you let it slide your just giving the green ‘go ahead and mess up my life’ signal, with all the bad consequenses attached to it.

he has stated in his most recent post that he doesn’t care about her.

Well that’s the problem, he ‘should’ care, instead of letting everything fall apart. People need to step up and stop a messed up situation, not letting it continue to go out of control.

I see it like this, if the faucet in the kitchen is leaking, you can just let it go and fill up the entire house with water (troubles) or you can immediatly try to fix it from escalating into a bigger problem, and doing the latter is definitly the better of the two ,instead of just ‘shrugging’ it off saying ‘oh golly what a mess, running away and letting the situation escalate.
You already know shes getting banged like a screen door in a hurricane. We were all that age once, and we all know what teenagers do when mommy and daddy aren’t home. Hell I did it even when my parents were home when the door was open. Guys that age do not stick around unless they are getting something out of it, and I am sure they are.

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Or how about as a parent you raise the girls to respect themselves enough to not have sex at 15? Damn thats a crazy concept isn’t it?

That is such a stupid argument. "oh if they are going to have sex anyways". Your kids are going to use drugs, why not provide them with clean needles? LOL

You need to give your children goals and focus. Being in situations, where a 15 yr old girl is having sex should not be acceptable. At 15 you should be focused on school, sports, or whatever else you are passionate about. Stay classy America.

its possible to both teach kids to wait AND provide them with BC. my parents raised me that i should wait til marriage. but also told me that if i was thinking about having sex, to let them know so they could help me get on the pill. i waited until i was older and then got on the pill by myself. unlike my friends, who parents raised them to wait until they were married and offered them no alternatives (they all had sex and got pregnant btw)
It’s the same with drinking. You can’t stop kids in high schools these days from drinking, but you CAN educate them about the dangers, and teach them to be responsible.

My mom always told me and my brother: "I don’t want you to drink while you’re in high school, but if you ever do, don’t be afraid to call for a ride home."

In other words, you want to teach your kids to wait and be safe, but you don’t want to make them so scared of punishment that they won’t turn to you for help.

Call the cops and have them arrested for statutory rape if you know they are 18 and older and having sex with your 15 year old sister. That should learn them

Or how about as a parent you raise the girls to respect themselves enough to not have sex at 15? Damn thats a crazy concept isn’t it?

That is such a stupid argument. "oh if they are going to have sex anyways". Your kids are going to use drugs, why not provide them with clean needles? LOL

You need to give your children goals and focus. Being in situations, where a 15 yr old girl is having sex should not be acceptable. At 15 you should be focused on school, sports, or whatever else you are passionate about. Stay classy America.

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That’s how my parents raised me. I’m 20 now and getting plenty from a long term relationship that will most likely turn out to be awesome in the future.

No idea why people think that kids NEED SEX OMG at a young age. Of course they’ll be horny as fuck but need some decent priorities set at the age of 15.

It’s the same with drinking. You can’t stop kids in high schools these days from drinking, but you CAN educate them about the dangers, and teach them to be responsible.

My mom always told me and my brother: "I don’t want you to drink while you’re in high school, but if you ever do, don’t be afraid to call for a ride home."

In other words, you want to teach your kids to wait and be safe, but you don’t want to make them so scared of punishment that they won’t turn to you for help.

Yep, I was raised the same way. I’m now doing pretty well. It’s the ones that either didn’t have parents that cared or did it on the sly that had the issues.

The whole age of consent is just a social construct anyway. Who is to say a 14 year old in NZ is old enough to give consent when a 16 year old in the US isn’t?

you joined 3 years after I did. You stole my name
my cousin and I are 12 days apart. (both girls).

when I turned 14 my dad took me down to the gyno and put me on BC.
my uncle did not take my cousin.

my cousin now has a 5 year old (we’re 20), and I have a life and am getting a college education.

I wasn’t even sexually active until I was 18 and out of HS, but by then I’d been on BC for 4 years.

BTW, I also hung out with much older guys when I was in HS (when I was 15/16 I dated guys that were 18-20 that went to the colleges nearby), and never had sex with any of them. Then again, the guys you’re describing sound much different than the ones I dated…

Just try to be a positive influence on your sister, if she likes hanging out with older people, take her out with you and your (responsible) friends, where you can keep an eye out. Nothing wrong with surrounding her with decent people.
… that is if you care (you saying you don’t love her is terrible)

Or how about as a parent you raise the girls to respect themselves enough to not have sex at 15? Damn thats a crazy concept isn’t it?

That is such a stupid argument. "oh if they are going to have sex anyways". Your kids are going to use drugs, why not provide them with clean needles? LOL

You need to give your children goals and focus. Being in situations, where a 15 yr old girl is having sex should not be acceptable. At 15 you should be focused on school, sports, or whatever else you are passionate about. Stay classy America.

We do teach our children self respect and on the importance of abstinence…however, no matter what you TRY to teach your kid’s they are going to do whatever they want with or without your approval.

It would be my greatest joy if my kid’s wait until they are much older to have sex. I have to realize as a parent that it is up to me to not only teach them self respect but also how to protect themselves because I am not always going to be by their side 24/7.

Plus, part of growing up is making mistakes and hopefully learning from them. I would certainly prefer my children be on BC, get HPV vaccinations, and use condoms to at least protect themselves from more serious consequences from their actions (STD’s and/or pregnancy). Sometimes as a parent we not only have to protect our kid’s from other people but also themselves!!!!!

That’s a horrible thing to say. You as her brother seeing your sister in a situation like she is in now should try to stand up for her. I say stand up for her because she could not really be knowing what she’s getting into given that she is still so young. You should still try to help her with what you see she’s doing wrong. The whole BC thing isn’t so messed up but the fact that your parents don’t seem as if they’re really explaining things to her or anything just like "Oh here have sum BC" and that’s it is kinda… I don’t know. Like they’re just trying to prevent something rather than educating your sister.

Even though you might not agree by how your family is taking this situation they’re still your family and you saying "I’m gonna bail on this trash family" is awful. You are putting yourself in no more of a better position with your indifference to want to even be a part of and help out in it.

I’ve heard the way these guys talk to my sister and her girlfriends. They are all white kids from the suburbs, but they say shit to each other like "don’t trip", "why you gotta play me like that", and other things that stupid people say. The guys call them all "bitches", and tell them to "shut yo mouth ho". They dress like gangsters too. They also tell her how they are gonna fuck her in the ass later. She is part of an uneducated crowd. They are all morons, and they are all going to end up as white trash.

So yeah, raising your kids to have some self respect would be the best solution. My parents failed.

I don’t love my sister or anyone else in the family, so I’m really not going to do anything about it. It’s just gross to watch these older losers hanging out with young girls because girls 18-20 years old actually know that those guys are fucking homos. And it’s unbelievable how my sister and her retarded little friends actually seem to enjoy being treated like "hoe’s" and being told to shut the fuck up. Idiots. I’m gonna bail on this trash family as soon as I have enough money saved up.

Here’s a thought. If you’re not willing to do anything to change a situation, don’t complain about it.
Sounds like your parents didn’t do their job as parents and are now relying on birth control.

As an older brother, you should talk to those older guys who come and visit her. Take them aside and inform them how awfully pathetic they are hanging out with girls 5 years younger than them. Ask them if they can’t meet girls their own age. Make it clear to them how sick it is that they have to approach an underage girl desperate for attention.
I’d kick them out of the house. If your sister makes a big deal out of it, tell her to talk to mom and dad. They’ll be on your side.

You need to make sure your sister understands the situation. She doesn’t see things the way you see it. She’s a dumb little girl who is easy to please and loves the attention these older guys are giving her. She doesn’t have the experience nor the ability to look back on her life and realize what’s going on. You need to do the best you can to inform her why she is acting the way she is and why she feels the way she feels. Also make a point at showing how pathetic those dudes are. They should have other things going on for them in their lives. When I was 18 I was going to university and pursuing my future career, not hanging around 15 year old girls that I have nothing in common with. Point this out to everybody.
Is your gf on BC familyguy? Because you’re not so brgiht either considering you cum inside her all the time…

We do teach our children self respect and on the importance of abstinence…however, no matter what you TRY to teach your kid’s they are going to do whatever they want with or without your approval.

It would be my greatest joy if my kid’s wait until they are much older to have sex. I have to realize as a parent that it is up to me to not only teach them self respect but also how to protect themselves because I am not always going to be by their side 24/7.

Plus, part of growing up is making mistakes and hopefully learning from them. I would certainly prefer my children be on BC, get HPV vaccinations, and use condoms to at least protect themselves from more serious consequences from their actions (STD’s and/or pregnancy). Sometimes as a parent we not only have to protect our kid’s from other people but also themselves!!!!!

As a parent there are many things you can do to not let your daughter put herself in those situations. Set a curfew, don’t let her out past certain times. DO NOT ALLOW BOYS to come over and "hang out". Also do not let your daughter go over to boy’s place to "hang out". Teach her its disrespectful to you as parents for that to happen. Sure she can go hang out with guys at the movies or bowling alley, but don’t let her put herself in a situation where something "might happen". The girls in my highschool that had sex early were the ones that had laid-back parents. They would be allowed to have guys over when the parents weren’t home, or they were allowed to go over to a guys house when his parents weren’t home. Those are the situations you need to stress are unacceptable. Can she find a place to have sex if she really wants too? Sure.. but don’t let her put herself in those situations easily. Teach her the value of education or a passion like sports/music/art. Like I said before, there are a lot more important things that a teenage girl should be thinking about other than sex.

I completly disagree with that. It’s not the ones with the laid back parents that are the problems – yes, they have sex (so what?) but it is usually in a safe location using protection. Good on them. A natural part of life. Enjoy it. Be safe.

It’s the ones that don’t care about the safety or are in denial about how sweet their little angel is that are generally the ones that get into trouble. Tend to have sex in a less safe place, less inclined to use birth control and generally does not occur anywhere near as safely as above.

Lets face it, teenagers have fun. It’s what they are biologically designed to do. It’s just society that places the different values on them. The best thing a parent can do is be open about these things, not make rash decision and end up sending them away to a much less safe location to have their fun.

He must care since he made this thread. Kinda funny how that works

I completly disagree with that. It’s not the ones with the laid back parents that are the problems – yes, they have sex (so what?) but it is usually in a safe location using protection. Good on them. A natural part of life. Enjoy it. Be safe.

It’s the ones that don’t care about the safety or are in denial about how sweet their little angel is that are generally the ones that get into trouble. Tend to have sex in a less safe place, less inclined to use birth control and generally does not occur anywhere near as safely as above.

Lets face it, teenagers have fun. It’s what they are biologically designed to do. It’s just society that places the different values on them. The best thing a parent can do is be open about these things, not make rash decision and end up sending them away to a much less safe location to have their fun.

I plan to be very open with my children regarding sex, drugs, alcohol, etc, and while I’ll try to instill a strong sense of ‘wait til later’ in them, I’ll also have them know that I won’t freak out on them and disown them if they don’t.

In my opinion this is the MOST important thing to show your kid’s. That you will NOT freak out on them for making mistakes. If you do freak out on them they will NEVER come to you and tell you anything, however if you remain calm and help them decide what is in their best interest, they will usually come to you FIRST before making any mistakes.

My bf’s daughter (now 15) came to me about THINKING about losing her virginity (sadly because all her friends were). We discussed all the self-respect issues, consequences (mental and physical) , taught her all about protection, got her on the pill, HPV vaccinations , and taught her about condoms.

Here’s the ironic part….are you ready….because of me being so open with her about all this and telling her about my horrible mistakes that I have made. She has decided that she wants to wait until she is much older and promised me to talk to me about it again before she thinks about it because, and I quote "you are the coolest adult I have ever know because you didnt flip out on me. Plus, you made me think about this and I didnt know there was soo much involved with it"

Currently both 15 yrs old girls in our house have no desire (yet) to lose their virginity. Must be doing something right huh?

No, I think he was expecting most of us to agree with him, and we didn’t. He hasn’t post on this thread again yet, so I’m assuming he doesn’t care what we have to say, exp. based on his other threads he posts.
I don’t know where the hell you live, but in this great nation of the United States of America, that sort of thing is illegal. Call the police! That is fucking sick!
Ok, you guys don’t need to address that being on BC is ok. We fucking get that.

The point is, she’s hanging out with old guys. That shit is fucked up. If I were the OP I would kick the shit out of the guys right away and then call the police.
Regardless of whether or not you think you’re going to bail on your family, your family has (as far as we know) cared enough about YOU to put a roof on your head instead of kicking YOU out when you turned 18.

If you’re allowing 20 year old losers to come into your home and fuck your fifteen year old sister WHILE YOU ARE HOME, you have failed as a brother. Even if you don’t love your sister, you owe it to your parents who DO love her to not allow that bullshit.

You can hate your "fucked up family" all you want, but she’s only a kid, and doesn’t deserve to be abandoned by her older brother.

Ok, you guys don’t need to address that being on BC is ok. We fucking get that.

The point is, she’s hanging out with old guys. That shit is fucked up. If I were the OP I would kick the shit out of the guys right away and then call the police.

that’s a smart idea. The police would arrive right on time to take you in on assault/battery charges.
I can’t believe no one cares that a 15 year old is fucking a 20 year old. Its illegal… If that was my kid she would be punished and some guys would have their ass kicked.

Congrats?

of course we care. It’s completely inappropriate…the thing is, none of us can do anything about it.

The OP could, but he doesn’t want to, because he doesn’t care about her.

But to be fair…from reading other posts of his in the past, he does not come across as having a good attitude in the first place.

It’s not innapropriate, it’s illegal. Age of consent is such a fluid concept it’s hard to determine when someone is ready or not.
Better to be on bc than not, shes going to have sex. But personally I would kick those guys fucking ass. And If your a small dude… its called a bat or a 2×4 and each of these is called an "equilizer". They should be jailed for what they are doing.

And so should people who would actually do what you are suggesting. Yes it’s wrong, but come on the daughter is obviously allowing this to happen somewhat…so assaulting these guys is a good way for the OP to get himself thrown in jail.

If they show up again without his parents’ permission, he should call the cops, not try to kick their asses.
If he was adament about saying he doesn’t even "love" his own sister he wouldn’t be making this thread….

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