So I’ve been friends with this girl for over two years. In the past we had a thing going on (made-out etc) and were about to officially date but I went to college without a car and would barely see her. We’ve reconnected and she even just asked me to go to her senior prom with her. We now are able to see each other a lot easier when we’re in college. She’s really friendly and most of her friends are guys.

The thing is I started to like her really bad a few months ago but got really really jealous when she was hanging out with one of my friends. So for the safety of not becoming an idiot and hurting her feelings again by being jealous, I decided (stupidly) not to be her friend telling her that I was afraid liking her again thinking that she didn’t. She told me she didn’t want to go out with me then because she still liked her ex-boyfriend and said she wouldn’t want to screw me over to make herself feel better. But she kept trying to be my friend even though i kept thinking it was a bad idea for me.

But now it’s months later and we got over that weird obstacle and we’re total friends again. I’m just afraid it might be pathetic again to tell her that I like her for real this time and wanting to actually go out with her if she doesn’t like me. I mean do you really want a friend who keeps liking you over and over again?

So how can I tell if she really likes me more or if I’m just another one of her guy friends? Signs or indications?
Here’s a protip for you son, forget about looking for signals make yourself more appealing to her if you still want her which sadly you still do. And by more appealing I don’t mean hanging out with her more but, making yourself less available and have fun without her. Go work out, go hit up bars with your buddies and go date other girls go on a trip, go camping with your buddies etc… Quit hanging on her like an accessory that’s a huge turn-off.
You’re in college, act like it. It’s a nice way of meeting plenty of girls.
Easiest way….ask.

Wtf is with kids these days?
Harden up princess – grab your balls and go get some!

I know that may seem harsh, yet unless you actually do something about her you are not going to grow or move forward

But then again….if you have to ask, you already know the answer.

Dunno….people seem to be more clingy than they used to be. I think it’s because of the high fructose corn syrup in everything.

actually no, not at all.

I think it’s because they think email and text can replace reals face to face communication.
sometimes that is the hardest question to ask. It’s easier and sometimes just to try and pick up on signals and in the process to be aloof and "uninterested".

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