Anyone else quit because of physical pain? Now I’m seriously into nutrition. I’ll know in a year if this works. It was extreme pain kicking in every winter until I couldn’t take it anymore.
I guess, eventually. You’ll know pretty soon if you’re addicted to alcohol!
I’ll never know because I quit. I quit everything that causes gout. If I don’t get gout next winter then it was all worth it.
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Friday night my hubby went to visit a friend of ours BF while he was at work closing up the bar.
Someone burst in the back door and shot him three times, my hubby was five feet away from him and the guy who got shot died in my cousins arms.
The gf of the guy who died is a really good friend of ours so we have been crying, laughng, confused, hurt ect together for the last three days. The guy who died was always smiling, laughing, happy and hard working. He also had a 3 year old daughter.
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Hey there, new poster here so I wanted to try some things out and see what advice I would get.
I decided, last week, that I was going to invite people over for the holidays to do a Christmas Tree Decorating thing at my house. The atendees were my best friend and his fiancee, my other friend and his gf and the girl I am currently seeing.
So early in the week, everyone was up for it, but as the week went along, people started to build up their excuses.
There are plenty of ways to make money in college. But I want to do it legally. There must be a way that way I can tell my friends and we can all buy the things our parents couldn’t afford to get us.
A job? I know most campus jobs dont pay much more than minimum wage, but usually you hardly have to do anything, and can use that time to do HW and stuff like that.
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in a friendship between a guy and girl, but the girl has a boyfriend, who has the responsibility to draw the line?
We’ve been increasingly physical and I hardly think her bf would be ok with it. She’s been reacting more sexually to things. We’ve never kissed, but I can tell she wants it bad (so do I). The only thing keeping it from happening is my goddamn conscience.
Is drawing the line her job because she is in the relationship or do I have a part in it as well?
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I’m curious if anyone knows anything about Disinibitors versus Reuptake Inhibitors? It seems like the overall effect would be the same. Why are Reuptake Inhibitors common in the US and there is almost no use of Disinihibitors.
What i suspect is that researchers would strive in a medicine to stop a certain reaction rather then to release something that has already stopped. Either that or the class of disinhibitors is so small that it would be more feesible to go for inhibiting medicine. To be honest i only heard about inhibitors, this is the first time i’ve heard from disinhibitors. It certainly is a good question.
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i seriously think my sister needs to be on medication.
my sister is emotionally unstable..she can be the most loving and giving person and then if one thing goes wrong she can be extremely destructive evil and not rational at all..she creates drama everywhere she goes and pushes away people she loves..only to be back to normal and the most loving and caring person and happy person ever..her mood swings are frequent and she has been this way her entire life..we always say she needs help or medicine and nothing has happened..what can we do?
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Outside of my brother, i have a really hard time talking and opening up to people. I have friends and acquaintances, but im not sure if anyone of them really know me. I have no idea what people think of me or how I am perceived. I think it may be because i only have friends for the sake of having friends. I dont know what i hope to gain out of this, but i’ve been in a bit of a rut for a little while and wanted to get this off my chest.
Are your parents divorced, and if so, did either one of them abandon you?
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So , i have a bit of a dillemma , i have a new GF ( some of you may remember my previous train-wreck relationships) and everything is great.. i think i finally found a normal woman.
But my issue relates to the holidays , she has 2 great kids ( 5 and 7) and is divorced from their father.. currently she has the kids during the week , and the courts allowed him visitation from 4 pm fri , to 6 pm sunday.. which normally works out pretty well , tho he is a complete ass ( doesnt pay child support , generally makes things difficult in any way he can , and has a police escort every time he gets or drops off the kids) but with Christmas falling on a weekend, she wont have her children.. i know its bothering her.. and i want to include her in my family’s Chrismas eve and day , as she isnt really close to her family.. just dont know how to go about it.. myself and my family have invited her to our christmas eve party.. and i think she’s coming , but she hasnt made anything definite yet..
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Somewhat of a crosspost from the Vag.
I’m 24 years old and I’m recently out of a relationship that was abusive as a result of my partner’s codependency. I’ve done a lot of reading about women being abusive as I started dealing with it and it led me to reading about codependency which fits her to a T.
Apparantly, being a conflict-avoidant male makes me the most likely type of person to get stuck in a relationship like this as I just did. It took three black eyes, a bloody nose and an uncountable number of marks, scratches for me to find my way out; and thats just the physical side of things. The emotional and verbal abuse was what really caused the pain.
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